My argument precisely! whilst i'm trying to make my friends shut up, they're just doing it in jest (i think/hope)
Just go see the guy on his own? Explain your friends thought it would be ''funny'' ... But like someone has recently posted he does seem to be a victim... People are getting amusement out of making him feel bad/scared however he feels... And just try and make him see that you actually do not have these pictures.. will be best coming from yourself
I know! it's almost laughable isn't it, it's sad how he's serious. And he actually thinks, i have a physical file filled with photographs of him in my room? wtf
If he reports, lets say the Head calls you in to explain. You deny it, because it isn't true, and say the Head can phone somebody at home and ask them to check; obviously they'll find nothing (although make sure there isn't anything else you don't want your parents to find, hint hint). If the Head won't give up, innocently and casually ask why the kid thinks this (only if you're desperate). Takes the burden of guilt away from you, might accidentally get him to drop your "friends" in it (although you haven't actually snitched) and then they'll be the ones proving they've done nothing wrong (which should be easy tbh).
Just go see the guy on his own? Explain your friends thought it would be ''funny'' ... But like someone has recently posted he does seem to be a victim... People are getting amusement out of making him feel bad/scared however he feels... And just try and make him see that you actually do not have these pictures.. will be best coming from yourself
yeah i can see why he could be a victim, but certainly not from me. i was walking up the stairs to my next lesson, at this point completely oblivious to what my friends had already said and he screams "delete & Bin the files you have of me, and never speak to me again!" and i say "what files, what on earth are you talking about?" and he goes "you know exactly what i mean"
I've tried explaining myself, and tried to show how obvious it is that they are just making him paranoid on purpose, to make me worried, but he's having absolutely none of it whatsoever.
If he reports, lets say the Head calls you in to explain. You deny it, because it isn't true, and say the Head can phone somebody at home and ask them to check; obviously they'll find nothing (although make sure there isn't anything else you don't want your parents to find, hint hint). If the Head won't give up, innocently and casually ask why the kid thinks this (only if you're desperate). Takes the burden of guilt away from you, might accidentally get him to drop your "friends" in it (although you haven't actually snitched) and then they'll be the ones proving they've done nothing wrong (which should be easy tbh).
I Lol'ed _ but yeah, i completely understand what you mean, and my parents are completely on my side, but i'm sure you agree with me how absurd it is that someone thinks i have a physical folder filled with pictures of someone in my room, which i annotate by hand and stick up on my wall? When my friends were telling this to the guy, i was thinking "wow, this is getting so far-fetched he'll going to start thinking they're trolling soon" but he just keeps nodding, agreeing, and getting more pissed off! it's mad.
yeah i can see why he could be a victim, but certainly not from me. i was walking up the stairs to my next lesson, at this point completely oblivious to what my friends had already said and he screams "delete & Bin the files you have of me, and never speak to me again!" and i say "what files, what on earth are you talking about?" and he goes "you know exactly what i mean"
I've tried explaining myself, and tried to show how obvious it is that they are just making him paranoid on purpose, to make me worried, but he's having absolutely none of it whatsoever.
Hmmmm... well as long as you have done nothing i guess you have nothing to worry about ....
I Lol'ed _ but yeah, i completely understand what you mean, and my parents are completely on my side, but i'm sure you agree with me how absurd it is that someone thinks i have a physical folder filled with pictures of someone in my room, which i annotate by hand and stick up on my wall? When my friends were telling this to the guy, i was thinking "wow, this is getting so far-fetched he'll going to start thinking they're trolling soon" but he just keeps nodding, agreeing, and getting more pissed off! it's mad.
i did just LOL. it sure is absurd... if someone started saying stuff to me like that, i'd just think ''yes, whatever!''
Haha, thanks. :P Can't wait to get it done and be a bit more independent at university, and away from the guys from high school, if you know what i mean.
Haha, thanks. :P Can't wait to get it done and be a bit more independent at university, and away from the guys from high school, if you know what i mean.
Mhm. Where are you applying? Once you get to uni your sixth form friends seem to disappear, at least in my experience anyway.
You seem to be finding fault with the guy when you should be finding fault with the bullies
Your OP and subsequent posts have all been about this boy and what you think is wrong with him
Perhaps you should go the the principal and explain what your friends have been doing ... work on removing the problem not blaming someone who is, as has been said, a victim