You know who you are...

Dont blame her, you sound like a phaggot.

You need to... BE A MAN.

Girls nag and whine for attention, but it's just gay when guys do it. It seems like you've oriented your whole life around this b*tch, and you've given her all the power. Now wonder she dumped you, you're pathetic. I mean altering your uni choices just so you could be nearer to her - that's so sweet...it makes me want to vomit. Any man who subjugates himself to a woman, isnt even a man. You cant be putting b*tches up on a pedestal brah, gotta treat them like the s*** they are.



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did you really just say 'brah'? You're 38 years old. You tell me to man up but you're nearly a middle aged man using the word 'phaggot'. Hardly PC, now, who needs the reality check?

****.
I never understand how some people can just end it so abruptly after long term relationships. You'll eventually get over her and meet someone who deserves you better, but I really do feel for you.

Thanks Effie, means a lot.

"omg that's so sad, she obviously doesnt deserve someone as amazing as you"

"grow some balls you pussy"

You notice how all the girls are like:



and all the guys are like:



Dont take relationship advice from women brah, they dont know s***.

Okay, well, I like relationships with women. Therefore I take more interest in women's opinions because they are going to be more accurate when talking about how women work than men would be. Do you see?

lol, the fact that you believe that just proves how delusional you really are. DO NOT take relationship advice from women. Women will tell you what they think they want, but that's all bulls***. Women dont have a clue about they want, but I can tell you for sure what they definitely dont want - f*ggy sensitive queers like who you will subjugate themselves to women.

No woman can tell you how to be a man, remember that brah.

I can't express how ****ing frustrated I am with you right now. I gave you everything in this relationship and you throw it back in my face by ending it with a phone call after 2 years and 2 months together?! Seriously? A ****ing phone call? I god damn deserve better than that. It's kind of pathetic that you couldn't face the music and at least do it face to face. Yes I was jealous of other boys whilst you were at uni, yes I nagged you to talk to me more while you were at uni but that was only because I loved you to bits and was struggling to readjust to new life without you here. I loved you no matter what! I'd send you gifts, take you on holiday, hold you while you slept, snuggled you when you were upset or cold, comforted you when you needed it and spoke to you as if every day was our last. What a **** boyfriend I turned out to be. Oh wait, that's bull****. I treated you like royalty and deserve way more than for you to ignore me after our break up and for you to tell me you'll never be with me again. I'll always resent you for giving up on us after we made promises and plans to be together, I even arranged my university choices around you so I could be near you. But you had to throw it back in my face. You've made me so incredibly miserable and I hope you're happy with what you've done. I hope you're proud that you've sucked every drop of life out of me while you're away at uni. Seriously though, to dump me over the phone is one thing, but to do it the day after your exams finish and while mine are still going on is ridiculous. You know I don't have another chance at these exams. That's one of the most selfish things I've witnessed and **** me, do I deserve better than that. I stay awake all night thinking about what could have been. And what would be reality now, had you not given up after I drove you away. I'll never forgive myself for losing you but at least I had the balls to stick to you because I know that we're happier together. I despise myself for still loving and needing you. But I can't help that. First loves suck. Sorry for posting this guys, it makes me feel a bit better.

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I never understand how some people can just end it so abruptly after long term relationships. You'll eventually get over her and meet someone who deserves you better, but I really do feel for you.

Yes you do. I don't know the whole story so I can't really judge her but I do think she should have considered the fact that you still have exams and are already going through so much stress. From this post alone I can see that you love her so much and I don't understand why someone would want to hurt someone who has so much love from them like you do for her. I'm sure she has her reasons. You could try talking to her but she may not be in the mood to talk and it could just make things worse. I know its hard but if I were you I'd just concentrate on my exams as much as I can and try to put this out of my head and then as soon as your exams are over I'd try to address it. She's already broken your heart you don't want her to break your future too.

(Once your exams are over speak to her to her, at least this would have allowed you both to have space and clear thoughts. When you can just to try and understand why she wants to breakup with you, why she did it over the phone and just to hear her side of the story). If things do end up working out then that would be really lovely if they don't then you're lucky that this happened after two months and not two years and also I'm sure you will find someone who loves you just as much as you loved this girl if not more. Chin up

How's it going so far? I know it hasn't been long but has she tried to contact you in any way since she broke up with you? (Quite horrendously, might I add).

Very selfish to ring up after her exams were done. Good luck for the exams OP, you got us behind you man!

Hey, umm not well! I've tried to contact her but she text me saying if I try again she'll change her number. It's strange, this time last month she messaged me this 'Baby I love you so much and I really hope we're okay. I can't deal with life without you. I just feel so lonely when I'm here so it must feel like I'll be the only person on earth if I wasn't with you. I can't imagine not being with you. I've got benguin here with me and we're both so sad because he doesn't want to lose his daddy and I don't want to lose my hubby. I'm sorry for not being here for you and I'm sorry we argue a lot. Its not my intention to be angry and upset with you all the time but I'm very tired and stressed out. I know its not an excuse but I'm sure its a contributing factor to all of our cuffufles I'm sorry again. I hope you have a lovely sleep and in the morning you'll realise that you need me as much as I need you. Sweet dreams gorgeous man.!!!!!! <3 we'll speak in the morning gorgeous. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx'. How can she change that much? Women confuse me.

Thanks for taking an interest

Thanks for the tips unfortunately it was after 2 years and 2 months so it's kind of heartbreaking. I tried to reason with her but she won't have anyone of it. Ah well, time to think about myself for a change and eventually get back on the horse

Cheers buddy, means a lot.