Guys - what age do you want to settle down/get married POLL

Wow people want to wait till late

It's a rush for women due to losing looks but for men, we don't have the same urgency. I'd even be happy waiting until near 40 TBH.

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Wouldn't say it's due to losing looks, and men have this delusion that they'll all look like George Cloony as they age but in reality, the average 40 year old man isn't any more attractive than the average 40 year old woman

It's not a "rush", but I dunno, I don't understand why people wouldn't want to do it early? Why wouldn't you want to spend your life with the one you love?

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Men are more attractive than Women when they are 40 but you can't seriously expect to get a woman many years younger than you so you really do need to get a move on quickly due to women's fertility last only till their 30s.A lot of women have been conned by society to look for careers first,use contraception and this has led to lots of women being unable to bear a child, once they realise its too late.Really they need to be looking for a child first because they know they have decades to find the right career.

Where's that from? Doesn't seem legit...

I do not plan on getting married with the anti male bias family court has.

Wouldn't say it's due to losing looks, and men have this delusion that they'll all look like George Cloony as they age but in reality, the average 40 year old man isn't any more attractive than the average 40 year old woman

It's not a "rush", but I dunno, I don't understand why people wouldn't want to do it early? Why wouldn't you want to spend your life with the one you love?

I think it all ties in with men and women's evolutionary programming. Men are programmed to be polygamous and whether we like it or not, we have that instinct. If we settle down early then we aren't really fulfilling it. For guys who never really attracted many girls, they aren't missing out by settling early as single life = a sexless life. But for others....

1) That's pseudoscience at best

2) I'll give you an example, my boyfriend's very attractive, gets lots of attention, he's 21. Yet he's perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship. He has done "the single stuff" beforehand and says it's boring and immature.

I get everyone has their own opinions, but I just don't see what you'd want from not settling down

1) That's pseudoscience at best

2) I'll give you an example, my boyfriend's very attractive, gets lots of attention, he's 21. Yet he's perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship. He has done "the single stuff" beforehand and says it's boring and immature.

I get everyone has their own opinions, but I just don't see what you'd want from not settling down

Some people have different ideas on how far to go with the "single stuff" before settling. Plus you can't guarantee he's being monogamous really :P That's a stock answer when a girlfriend asks if you're happy with only sleeping with one woman.

Some people have different ideas on how far to go with the "single stuff" before settling. Plus you can't guarantee he's being monogamous really :P That's a stock answer when a girlfriend asks if you're happy with only sleeping with one woman.

I can guarantee it. It wasn't an answer to a question either, we were just talking about how stupid most young people are.

I don't get why anyone would want to do it at all though? I come from a family of early marriers, my nan at 18, my mum at 20, seems the best thing to do

Just because you don't believe in monogamy, doesn't mean everyone else thinks the same

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