Why do majority of my friends leave me on delivered for hours/days?

Probably busy offline or prefer to text/video call/use other social media sites to chat with friends.

Basically, most of my new/close friends leave me on delivered (they aren't all friends with each other it's different friendship groups) like I would make friends with someone in college and when we text on Snapchat, for example about euphoria they would respond on time but then a short while later (I don't mean texting for hours I mean like the 3rd time texting on a different date a few days later or a week later) it would be me being added to their Snapchat private but also being left on delivered for HOURS or days but them being active on Snapchat e.g snap map and reading our class GC e.g. English GC but not private dms. Ps I don't spam nor regard myself as a boring person but it happened to me by 10+ people recently so I'm kinda thinking that I'm the problem even though nothing happened cause how do they have friends if they leave them on delivered too? cause they don't do it to them. They act like nothing happened in College and talk normally... can someone tell me the reasons why this happens to me? I don't spam. 2 out of the 10 added me to a plan for a vacation with a bunch of others in summer but that's probably cause we're studying at the library and I was there so it would be quite thingie aka a bit rude (I wouldn't think its rude since I don't know their other friends.)

don't overthink it they're most likely comfortable w u so drm leaving u on delivered. I know this bc I leave even my closest friends on delivered bc im too lazy

I think you just get to an age where life gets too busy to be constantly on your phone, I wouldn't say it's a personal thing

They have a life besides social-media meaning they cannot be on it 24/7, spend productive time with family, studying and working.

Is no one reading my full message? I literally just said they are active on social media, post on Snapchat private of TikTok videos, screenshots of funny texts with other friends, active on snap map, I get A*A*A* in my classes yet I don’t act like I’m busy yet realistically being on Snapchat most of the day cause we all know if the half swipe Snapchat feature wasn’t in existence everyone would reply knowing they don’t know what you said

whats the halfswipe feature? can you read messages without actually openning them? lol.

Yeah. Swipe to the right.

that just takes you to the 'snap map' lol

whats the halfswipe feature? can you read messages without actually openning them? lol.

I will reply to this next week.

Seriously - stop worrying about it - life is too short. You are creating an issue where it’s 99% likely that an issue does not exist.

Have a great day!

If they are replying in due course and still seem genuine and engaged with what you’ve said, it’s not an issue whether they reply straight away or after a few hours.

I often don’t reply for days, weeks or even months.