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Reply 20
Aw there's nothing to be ashamed about, it's the closest thing we get to having sex.

Until we get girlfriends, our hands will have to do. Just embrace this fact and you will instantly feel better.

Edit: OP is a girl!? Nice!
(edited 12 years ago)
It's completely natural OP, don't hate.
Reply 22
If you really wanna stop,just stop thinking bout being horny!
Take your mind off it,and think of..other things! :s-smilie:
Reply 23
Original post by Death.
Aw there's nothing to be ashamed about, it's the closest thing we get to having sex.

Until we get girlfriends, our hands will have to do. Just embrace this fact and you will instantly feel better.

Edit: OP is a girl!? Nice!


you wacked off to this thread didn't you
I wouldn't feel bad, its natural to masturbate even for girls to do it.
Reply 25
It's probably just a stage you're going through, don't worry so much - it's totally normal. :smile:
Reply 26
start masturbate others
Reply 27
Original post by madrid90
Twice a week isn't bad, i've heard of people who masturbate like 7 times a day.


this guy?
(edited 12 years ago)
Original post by Anonymous
Pls keep anon..

Basically, when i masturbate it's like i'm someone else, it feels wrong but the pleasure overcomes everything else. But afterwards, i feel disgusting. I just want to stop, it's a burden that i could really do without at this point in my life, but every single time i go back to it again. I don't masturbate often, maybe once or twice in 2 weeks...but still :frown: it just feels so wrong


Don't worry about it - once or twice in two weeks is hardly anything! Its a completely natural response to completely natural urges.
Original post by Death.
Aw there's nothing to be ashamed about, it's the closest thing we get to having sex.

Until we get girlfriends, our hands will have to do. Just embrace this fact and you will instantly feel better.

Edit: OP is a girl!? Nice!


repped for sig.
Reply 30
I like how you see masturbation and assume OP is male! :laugh:
I used to feel this way about porn. I got over it. Trust me, you'll feel much better when you stop seeing human sexuality as disgusting and 'unacceptable'.
Reply 32
Original post by mat21
this guy?


Haha, it's crazy what you can find on youtube.
Reply 33
Original post by ironandwine
It's completely natural OP, don't hate.


Are we speaking from experience, by any chance?
Original post by Architecture-er
Indeed, like going from ballet to tango.


wtf is up with your sig....so annoying yet so mesmorising.
Reply 35
Original post by Anonymous
girl


Condition yourself. Every time you masturbate, punch yourself hard in the face after you're done.

You'll start to associate the pain of being punched in the face with masturbating, and the pain will override the pleasure you felt.

loljk, masturbation is natural and it's natural to feel the way you do. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
Reply 38
There's nothing wrong or disgusting about it, it's completely natural and it's a great way to unwind and relieve stress. It's not as though it's taking over your life. I'm guessing you've been brought up in a religious family or one which isn't at all open about sex.
Look, I need you to breathe for me, okay?

I’m going to take a wild leap here and guess that you are in your early teens. Young enough for such a subject matter not to become all too common place in your friendship group, but old enough to know this site and to frequent it every now and then if you feel comfortable enough to use it for such a question.
- And ignore the people who will not consider your dilemma with a serious mind set.

What you are feeling is not uncommon, in time you should relax enough about it for it to become a frequent topic when even just joking about it with friends, but right now I imagine that you feel quite isolated and have no inclination to talk about masturbation with friends or family at all.

Whenever you feel like you want to, just make certain that you are alone (presumably in the house) and your door is closed. Ensure that you will be alone for some time and not just with a five minute window of opportunity for instance, if your parents are shopping and you are home alone.

Give yourself time to grow comfortable with yourself and remember that it is far more unnatural not to, then to continue. I’m pretty sure that this has been going on for eons and I dare say as has your initial discomfort.

It is highly unlikely that your parents will ever find out and even if they do, I doubt that it will be a subject they will wish to breech with you. Hell, one of my friends once decided to tell my dad that I watch porn and that had never become a ‘sit down and let’s talk’ moment.

Give it a year or two at most for your friend’s to catch up with you and start to talk to you about the subject matter too. Maybe introduce some related topics into conversation when appropriate to see how they respond and maybe they might surprise you with what they say.

No matter what, don’t make yourself uncomfortable simply because that’s what you think society, your parents and maybe even religion want of you. Really horrible though for you, but still true, what do you think your parents and even grandparents did at your age?

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