'80% of men unhappy with looks', are you one of them.......?

The Media can go **** itself. That's the reason. Us, as men, have nothing near to what Women have when it comes to appearance altering products. Make-up makes such a profound difference it's unbelievable, almost unfair. Apart from the clowns that tan themselves, us men wake up and just be, all day. There's no wonder so many of us ain't 'appy.

There's no formula to getting girls. You will attract some, no matter what you are like, and there will be girls who wouldn't come anywhere near you, no matter how many perceived qualities you have. I get what you mean with trying to almost quantify your qualities - but it doesn't work that way. If you can feel yourself building up a connection with a girl, then you're doing something right for that particular person, there's no point in trying to 'improve' your personality/appearance to suit girls in general as that will never work.

How dyou think anyone who reads your posts feels?

His post was pretty sarcastic if s didnt notice.

You know that men value personalities as well right, or at least I do? You can be the most attractive girl in the world, but have an ugly personality, and that's what'd make you "ugly" - not the fact that you don't consider yourself as attractive on the outside

Also, I preferred you as a person when you're trolling consisted of slating any one who disregarded Oxbridge etc... and now it's just "I'm ugly, I'm racist but I don't want to say it, I'm insecure" etc...

henchness = k.attractiveness , for every girl on the planet

You could have the best personality in the world - means **** all if you're ugly on the outside.

True but we all want to increase our chances as much as possible right? We want the best opportunities in life.

It's like firing a shotgun at a target far in the distance. Some of the pellets will still connect, but a lot will miss. You might even miss all of them. That can be considered how attractive I am now. By working as best you can to improve yourself, you may move closer to the target. As a result, more pellets will connect, but yes, some will still miss. You might even miss altogether and never connect, but at least there's less chance of it.

It's just about increasing your chances. Guys don't like uncertainty. We can't sit around and pray that we find the right one(s). The only thing we can do is do our best to make sure it doesn't happen. We will never be sure, but we'll try lol

You could have the best personality in the world - means **** all if you're ugly on the outside.

Are you talking about muscle building or personality changing here? Because if it's the former, aren't you only really attracting one criteria of women (women who like big guys who lift)? How does that increase your chances?

I concur.

That forum reeks of arrogance

As long as you ain't trying to bang someone conventionally beautiful, you should be okay. Don't you find nerds i.e. unconventional boys, attractive?

Both. There's always a range that get rated most attractive by a majority. Not everyone. Maybe not even more than half. Just a majority.

It's mostly the result of horrific insecurity. 20-40 year old virgins galore. Shredded virgins, but still dangerously socially awkward (like this guy);



Still funny though.

Since when did "unconventionally beautiful" meant "ugly"?

It doesn't. They're completely separate terms.

Yeah, muscle building generally leads to confidence boost which is a personality change.



Who is that, aware me? I have a hard time believing he is a virgin. With a body like that he doesn't have to do any talking.



True that, what kind of guys are you attracted to? I'll tell you whether they're probably out of your league.

True that, what kind of guys are you attracted to? I'll tell you whether they're probably out of your league.

Who is that, aware me? I have a hard time believing he is a virgin. With a body like that he doesn't have to do any talkining.

Believe it. Project_belair is his name. Really nice guy too. Could ofcourse be waiting for 'the one' or have not found anyone he wants yet. But I swear he wouldn't have to go through much effort to get her lol

Damn I recognize his username, from cali right? Didn't know his a virgin, has to be by choice. Mind = blown if otherwise.