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    Yes
    201 83.06%
    No
    41 16.94%

  1. FrigidSymphony's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    Define "race" for me, please.
  2. No Future's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    I'm mixed so not many people are the same race as me, so it's inevitable.
  3. KiaraMarissa's Avatar
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    My dad was a mix of multiple races and my mom is white. If I wanted to date within 'my race' I'd have to date my cousin. Since that's not really my thing.. yes, I would date outside my race.
  4. ShredMaster's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by Jessica20)
    From my experience black guys do seem to have had bigger packages than the white guys ive known.

    But size isnt everything, sure it helps some times and in some positions but its all down to how he uses it. Ive known a white guy with (approx figures) a 7" it was VERY thick and he was seriously and utterly amazing! Yet my BF a black guy is 9" (maybe 10" just before he cums, feels like it goes rock solid) and a bit thick but usually he pretty much cums right away if i go rough on him even though he lasts ages if we just make love. Ive known a white guy who was probably 5" he was quite good. Ive never known a black guy be less than 7" though. Never been with a oriental guy not really my thing.

    I was a party animal when i was 16-19 lol
    10 inches wtf?
    Doesn't exist.
  5. R4INBOW's Avatar
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    (Original post by sloanegirl)
    I wouldn't, simply because I don't think I would have much in common with the average non-white person. It would just be too much effort to sift through them whereas I am more likely to find love in a massive pool of white people with similar backgrounds to me.
    That's pretty closed minded of you :lolwut: what makes you say that?


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  6. NDGAARONDI's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by Dagnabbit)
    Since I am of mixed race (Portuguese, Chinese, mixed British, Irish and possibly more), I'm not sure if I can really 'date inside my race'. I would happily go out with someone who has 'nothing racially in common with me' (e.g. purely Native American).
    Are you including Inuits then? I suppose, by a stretch, you could put them with Chinese anthropologically speaking under the very broad umbrella of "mongoloid" but I never bother with that definition.
  7. NDGAARONDI's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by MancBoy)
    This is why interracial dating is so rare.
    Is it? Just curious having been in a relationship with a black girl myself. Find it a bit strange given the immigration we had during the 60s from the Commonwealth and the such. Most people have preferences but I fail to see why people have a seemingly laid out criteria. As far as I go, someone can be from Morocco, Kiribati, India, Japan, Somalia, Iran, Ghana, Turkey etc. I couldn't care less. Remember coming across a nice woman from Seychelles on the way to town a while back. Nationality/race is no issue for me.
  8. AndromedaLight's Avatar
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    I am mixed. White and Hispanic. I've only ever dated white guys. But since I live in a town that is 75% white, I guess it should be expected.
    I recently came out so I don't date men anymore. The only girls I've been into are white as well. My ex-girlfriend is white.

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  9. alanr's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    I'm middle eastern, in my hometown we had white and tanned people, though in the middle east we classify the whites into two categories. The red whites that just burn in the sun (lol) and the other whites that tan very easily (like me), we also had Muslims and Christians, so I'm already used to the "different colours" though for us it's mostly a cultural thing, rather than a race thing. Long story short, yes I would.
    Last edited by alanr; 26-07-2012 at 02:18.
  10. Dagnabbit's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by NDGAARONDI)
    Are you including Inuits then? I suppose, by a stretch, you could put them with Chinese anthropologically speaking under the very broad umbrella of "mongoloid" but I never bother with that definition.
    Yes, although my general point was that dating anyone (other than my brother :rolleyes: ) would be dating outside my race, to some extent. From both a cultural and a racial view.
  11. G-Hova's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    Why not I love women of all races but I must say I fall for a particular race more so than not beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Beauty is for each individual to see not what society thinks or say.

    The test and proof you want is conducted with a biased opinion from the start. Not gay, but I have seen a lot and I mean a lot of black dicks from that I can tell you most blacks are definitely bigger than 7" even 8 but I have also seen small black dick but the ratio is like 3 in 100. Now I have not seen a lot of other race dick beside Internet so I can't say

    But relationship is about caring for someone you love, happy to be together until is goes sour lol, beliefs and chemistry. But I can understand why people will choose not to date outside their race some is religion reason, society/their surround and belief but I will say don’t limit yourself you can learn something about yourself or others and be come a better man/woman. Take some time to talk to someone who has a totally different culture/race you just might learn something new.
  12. Wilfred Little's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by G-Hova)
    Not gay, but I have seen a lot and I mean a lot of black dicks
    :confused:

    By the way I'm teetotal, I only drink at weekends.
    Last edited by Wilfred Little; 26-07-2012 at 17:46.
  13. sloanegirl's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    Don't really know what to make of this to be honest :confused:

    How many non-white people have you met?
    I've lived in London for over a year, so quite a lot
  14. G-Hova's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    :confused:

    By the way I'm teetotal, I only drink at weekends.
    Lol I was born in the same country you are representing went to boarding school at an earlier age so i know
    What I find funny about this topic is when people say interracial or outside your race everybody assume it's only black and white.
    Last edited by G-Hova; 26-07-2012 at 21:16.
  15. headbands,'s Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    If they are nice, have a good personality, and are respectful, then race really doesn't matter to me
  16. headbands,'s Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by G-Hova)
    Why not I love women of all races but I must say I fall for a particular race more so than not beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Beauty is for each individual to see not what society thinks or say.

    The test and proof you want is conducted with a biased opinion from the start. Not gay, but I have seen a lot and I mean a lot of black dicks from that I can tell you most blacks are definitely bigger than 7" even 8 but I have also seen small black dick but the ratio is like 3 in 100. Now I have not seen a lot of other race dick beside Internet so I can't say

    But relationship is about caring for someone you love, happy to be together until is goes sour lol, beliefs and chemistry. But I can understand why people will choose not to date outside their race some is religion reason, society/their surround and belief but I will say don’t limit yourself you can learn something about yourself or others and be come a better man/woman. Take some time to talk to someone who has a totally different culture/race you just might learn something new.
    Totally agree with this!
  17. ProfessorPester's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    I'm open to women of all races.
  18. SuarezAlonso's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    In my life I've found every race attractive.. Whether that be on the bus and spotting a good looking girl to people at college. Every race I've found attractive. But saying that, I don't think I would go out with a Muslim girl because of the conflicts with their beliefs.

    I do however have a slight preference for Mixed-Race girls and Latinas.. That's just the way it is.

    Personal Preference.
  19. Peachtwist's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    (Original post by ilem)
    What about international (not necessarily interracial) dating?
    Done this. I've had no choice. I'm a Canadian in the UK and I don't know of any others around.
  20. Peachtwist's Avatar
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    Re: Do you date outside your race?
    I haven't dated outside my race but I would so long as the chemistry etc is all there.
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