Girls what should I do?

nah it's more like he's 18 , about to become a uni student and like a typical teenager , doesn't have much money :P

i also hate paris haha , nice offer though

Thanks for your input, did you pay for everything early on or have you only recently started sharing the cost? It's not that I don't think she would contribute, I just don't want to appear tight and I guess it's that old stereotype that I should be paying for everything.. I'm slow to the game tbh, I've never dated etc I've just got to know the girl casually through school or on campus etc. I've only ever had fwb, nothing more..
She seems like a really sweet girl and I want to make my chances as good as possible
cheers

Nah, she always paid for stuff, she'd insist and I wouldn't argue, though I was nineteen when this relationship started, I was a late starter with girls. I did slip the odd one in, and I think they appreciate it more when it's occasional, not just the done thing. I think paying for stuff all the time can come across a bit eager and insecure. Like I stopped buying drinks for girls at clubs, if a girl ever asked I'd say "you buy me one and I'll get you one back", bit of a cocky line but it gives a much better impression than fawning over them and getting them drinks.

If she is a sweet girl she probably won't mind paying for herself, and she won't think you're tight unless you're actually being tight. You've also said you don't have money to burn at the moment, and it's much more unattractive to overspend at first and then be broke and having to scrimp on everything.

Yeah dude you don't have to pay, it's not like she's doing you a favour by paying her way! Just say 'hey, I saw this festival, made me think of you and I'd love to go together - the tickets are £60 each, do you want to go?' + you could say if you really wanted 'I'd offer to pay for the both of us but I'm a little low on cash atm'
And them treat her to some little things like maybe drinks etc.