Asking girl about stopping condom use?

Sex with a condom is better than no sex at all, but only just. Without is a different world

Ohh I thought guys were just exaggerating. They really should bring out a male pill, I can't go on birth control as it makes my hyper mobility worse.

Am I the only girl who totally agrees that sex is WAY better without a condom?

Just ask her, worth a try.

If I was her and you asked I wouldn't mind. I'm on the pill though, she may not be. You guys seem to be friends so she should trust you if you say you're clean. If not, show her the texts the clinic sends you when you get negative results, if you still have them that is.

To put into context. With a condom on I can last a long time.

Without...that time is SIGNIFICANTLY shorter.

Does wearing a condom really make a big difference to how things feel? Just curious.

Does wearing a condom really make a big difference to how things feel? Just curious.

It does to me. Compare going out in a thunderstorm naked to going out with a poncho with the hood pulled up- completely different experience. I feel kinda bad slagging off condoms online, I mean if you're having a one night stand they're not only definitely worthwhile, but I don't think it makes much difference. It's only when you're having regular sex that they become a pain. It can also ruin foreplay.

, the likelihood of an STD being transferred during sex if you're wearing a condom is the same if you weren't.

That makes sense. It can interrupt the mood I guess but some girls don't have the option of going on the pill so have to use condoms.

There are a lot of other options besides the Pill, I know my girlfriend had a good NHS leaflet with about five main options, giving pros and cons. The implant is a popular one. Of course, these things don't protect against STDs, so condoms are needed anyway if you aren't confirmed clean.

Are you ready to become a father?

(Cause if you don't get the STIs you might get a baby out of unprotected sex. Do think about this)

Just out of interest are there any options that aren't hormone related, as it's the progestogen that makes me dislocate joints?

The copper coil doesn't have any hormones. It lasts 5-10 years depending on the type. I think there's a thread in health of people's experiences with it.
The only other options are caps or diaphragms. I personally wouldn't use them though, they sound quite awkward to use and are less effective than the coil.

I think asking someone to stop condoms is better done after you're exclusive.

Try experimenting with different brands and types of condoms, you'll be surprised at the differences. As well as a spermicide in the condoms some even contain a local anaesthetic cream to help reduce the sensitivity on your penis and prolong your action, helping the female to enjoy longer penetrative sex. Also try different lotions, lots available at Boots, that can heighten pleasure for both partners while using a condom.

They really should bring out a male pill...