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I got rejected today...

I asked for a girls number. And I got this.

"No sorry. I dont want to sound nasty but I don't give people I don't know my number."

Be nasty, mock and laugh away. I deserve it.

I lose.

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Reply 1

Odd socks

It was one girl who by the sounds of it you hadn't met before, odds are she wasn't going to give you her number. Just move on and try again

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Reply 2

vickyhunt

Lol, that's kind of fair enough on her part.

Move on.

Reply 3

username945458

Lool sounds like something I'd say to someone who I don't know who asked for my name.
You just need to get to know a person before you ask for their number.

Reply 4

Abstraction

I guess that really hit you hard, huh. That's what one gets for running the rat race.

There there OP, open up Netflix or something and cheer yourself up.

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Reply 5

Pennyarcade

It happens to the best of us. Chin up!

Reply 6

h3isenberg

That was a nice reply though, I've seen much worse

Reply 7

Ndella

Did you literally just meet her and ask her for your number?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Ndella

Did you literally just meet her and ask her for your number?

Nah not her. I've chatted to her for a week or two at Uni. She "knew" me so that just makes the whole thing 5x worse.

Reply 9

Yeah dude

It's fine dude, it happens and there's still another 4 billion to ask :smile:

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Reply 10

Ndella

Original post by Anonymous

Nah not her. I've chatted to her for a week or two at Uni. She "knew" me so that just makes the whole thing 5x worse.

I bet is, sorry she shot you down like that. There's bound to be other girls you haven't met :smile:

Reply 11

Kennex

So what?

It's one woman who wasn't interested. Plenty of fish in the sea, ect.

Reply 12

Clarissa Summer

Haha this is why I think guys are controlling. They want instant gratification...

Reply 13

Zarek

Flawed strategy unless your drop dead gorgeous..

Reply 14

EllieC130

Funny, I responded this way a few weeks back XD

Reply 15

Sam Walters

I get rejected 10-15 times on a night out. It doesn't bother me any more. Its not always going to go your way. Where would be the challenge and fun in that?

Reply 16

Zechs

Original post by Anonymous

I asked for a girls number. And I got this.

"No sorry. I dont want to sound nasty but I don't give people I don't know my number."

Be nasty, mock and laugh away. I deserve it.

I lose.

That's quite a soft rejection there and also all the girl did was be honest with you, I am surprised it hurt you. Girls can be much more mean then that so count yourself lucky.

Reply 17

Zechs

Original post by Anonymous

Nah not her. I've chatted to her for a week or two at Uni. She "knew" me so that just makes the whole thing 5x worse.

Even with that if she basically was not attracted to you it was still quite a gentle rejection. Some girls are different just because you been talking with her a week does not mean it's anything special she probably saw you more as a friend.

If you asked her for her number in the terms of friendship she probably would have given it, still two weeks is quite fast especially if the girl has no attraction to you.

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Reply 18

Zechs

Original post by Clarissa Summer

Haha this is why I think guys are controlling. They want instant gratification...

Asking for a girls number and perhaps expecting a yes makes a guy controlling for you, are you serious? When I read your thread I was thinking you were going to talk about some abusive really controlling guy instead all I got was you putting all guys in one box.

Still I think you are confused about what controlling means perhaps the word you are looking for is persistent in your case. There is nothing wrong with a guy being persistent if he knows when to stop and it does not turn into harassment. To be honest you sound like you have lived a sheltered life if you believe asking for a number and maybe expecting a positive reply is controlling.