Original post by fallen_acorns1, accept that it was your fault, and entirely your fault.
2, accept that it is perfectly ok that its your fault - we all make mistakes, and we all disappoint ourselves sometimes. I certainly have before.
3, work practically on what you can do now, to rectify the situation.
That involves two parts:
1, recognizing what went wrong last time. In your case:
"during third year i just lost total motivation" - you lost motivation
"I really wish i made more thought into it after college." - because you made a bad decision when you were younger
"standard was pretty much unrealistic if i wanted a life to" - you didn't commit enough work, and focused on your social life
"I have held a part time job throughout uni too so my focus wasnt always on uni" - you priortised short term financial benefits over long-term career goals.
So in short, you made a bad decision when you were younger, and then didn't commit the work or focus required to achieve the grade you needed in your degree. You became distracted both socially and with a part-time job, and only realized how much of a problem this would cause, after it was to late.
2, working on piratical changes that you can make going forward
Excluding the more unusual options, you have a two very common routes that people take in your shoes:
1, Continue studying
My sister went this way, after receiving a 3rd. She went out, got a part-time job, and studied a masters at the best university that would give her a place (considering her 3rd) - she ended up with a merit in her masters, and then entered into a career that she would not have been able to enter into with only a 3rd. They were much more open to her, after she had a masters, more years of work experience, as well as her 3rd.
2, Get a job that has no degree requirement, and work your way up
Another friend of mine wen't this way, and it worked well for them. They lowered their expectation and first took a job in retail. Around 6 months later, they finally managed to get a lower-level job in a decent career sector, with a smaller local firm that didn't have fixed grad-scheme type requirements. After 4 years of working there, they secured a place in a traditional graduate-type company role, on the back of their solid work history, good reputation/references, and good applicable skill-base, all easily making up for their lower degree mark.