I find it strange that feminism harbours such hostility towards the men's rights movement. While you certainly get the occasional misogynist in it I feel like I've seen a lot more from the men's rights movement which is actually helpful than I have from feminism.
But that isn't to say that feminism can't be helpful. There are plenty of issues out that are particularly felt by, or even specific to, women. In my life I have seen plenty of sexism towards women, I have seen men treat women like they're a lesser sex. It happens, of course it does, and people should criticise it. Not censor it, but certainly criticise it. Moreover, in many countries in the world women are still absolutely treated like second class citizens, or even chattel, and more and more people from such places are coming to Western countries to live, and their women need our support. There is plenty of space for feminism to be completely valid, and even absolutely necessary.
The same goes for men's rights. I'm sure I don't have to go into why this movement is helpful, if you're on this sub you know why. I know first hand why it is needed. As someone who suffers from mental health problems I know just how little sympathy men get, and how little help is on offer for them. Men in our society are often seen as expendable islands who are here to provide, but which should never be taken care of.
There are problems for men and women that absolutely should be addressed, but too often I feel like the movements which are supposed to be focused on looking out for either sex are preoccupied with slinging **** at each other, and meanwhile the people who really need help just have to suffer in silence while the people who are supposed to be helping them spend their energy on raging against the other side.
If you're a man and you've suffered from a mental illness and been completely disregarded, leading you to the point of suicide because no one seems to give a ****, you aren't alone. And you aren't only not alone in the male sex. There are women out there who have been treated like ****, raped, beaten, whatever, by men who get some kinda sadistic pleasure out of treating women like dirt. Women who have been scorned for having abortions, women who have been kicked out of their house or even murdered for not following a religion correctly, women who have been treated like sex objects, women who have been called a slut or a whore just for how they dress, and women who have been raped as the pickings of war. Likewise there are men who have been beaten up, murdered, raped, pushed into wars as cannon fodder, and treated in all kinds of awful ways because men are seen as expendable, or for whatever other prejudice. In the end, there's a lot of people in this world who are hurting, and those of us who are shouldn't be lead by the narcissism of the people who claim to stand for us, whether "us" means us with pussies or us with dicks. People who have been ****ed over should all be working together, because every one of us knows how crap it feels to be in a culture which, in one way or another, ain't treating us right. There's what we have in common, and all this other **** doesn't matter. We should be working together to make life less *****y, and feminism and men's rights absolutely have valid places in the world, as they address the issues particular to each sex, and should be working together to rid the problems of prejudice towards either sex.