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Original post by ron202
That study talks about the amount of women that identify as bisexual , however as your points prove there are women who identify as straight but who ate by definition bisexual bringing the actual number of bisexual women to more than 0.8 the most part is just my personal belief


No, no, no. Just no. They are not bisexual. They don't identify as bisexual, they don't have romantic and sexual attraction to men and women, they are not bisexual. Thry are straight.

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Original post by Manuster
Again dude, it's not that black and white lmao, porn is 90% to a males taste, if there was hetero porn to a woman's taste then ofc they'd watch it. They don't watch lesbian porn to get turned on by the women, they watch lesbian porn because they can/want to relate to it far more than hetero porn.

Not many girls want to be "****ed hard in a taxi cause she can't pay her fare"


If they can releate to girls performing homosexual acts on each other then they aren't straight lol. Is that hard for you to understand ? You'd never catch anyoone calling a guy straight if they get off to gay porn because straight guys don't relate to gay sex do they ? but somehow that logic goes out the window when it comes to women. If porn is 90% to a males taste meaning stuff that turns guys on like lesbian porn then if a girl is into it too then they aren't straight still.
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
No, no, no. Just no. They are not bisexual. They don't identify as bisexual, they don't have romantic and sexual attraction to men and women, they are not bisexual. Thry are straight.

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It doesn't matter what they identify as because sexual identity isn't nessarcily the same as actual sexual orenation. They don't have to have romantic attraction towards a woman , they already have sexual attraction towards females since they are being aroused by females engaging in homosexual activity.
Original post by ron202
It doesn't matter what they identify as because sexual identity isn't nessarcily the same as actual sexual orenation. They don't have to have romantic attraction towards a woman , they already have sexual attraction towards females since they are being aroused by females engaging in homosexual activity.


:facepalm:

As a bisexual woman, I think I'm more qualified than you here. They are not all being aroused by the females, but the act itself.
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
:facepalm:

As a bisexual woman, I think I'm more qualified than you here. They are not all being aroused by the females, but the act itself.


Well when a straight guy watches straight porn (the camera focuses on the woman) or lesbian porn they are being aroused by women because they are sexually attracted to women

when a lesbain watches lesbian porn they are being aroused by women because they are sexually attracted to women

when a gay guy watches gay porn they are being aroused by men beccause they are sexually attracted to men
I don't think anyone would deny this but

when a women who indetifies as straight and gets aroused by women having sex with women in a pono they are somehow not sexually attracted to women?

Well by that logic if a guy gets turned on by a porno of by a dude ****ing another dude that means they are straight as long as they identify as straight because they are turned on by the act of anal sex which they can have with women and not by the fact that it's two dudes going at it.

Would anybody call a guy in this situation straight ? Could you genuinely say with 100% honesty that you belive a guy in this situation is straight ?
Original post by ron202
Well when a straight guy watches straight porn (the camera focuses on the woman) or lesbian porn they are being aroused by women because they are sexually attracted to women

when a lesbain watches lesbian porn they are being aroused by women because they are sexually attracted to women

when a gay guy watches gay porn they are being aroused by men beccause they are sexually attracted to men
I don't think anyone would deny this but

when a women who indetifies as straight and gets aroused by women having sex with women in a pono they are somehow not sexually attracted to women?

Well by that logic if a guy gets turned on by a porno of by a dude ****ing another dude that means they are straight as long as they identify as straight because they are turned on by the act of anal sex which they can have with women and not by the fact that it's two dudes going at it.

Would anybody call a guy in this situation straight ? Could you genuinely say with 100% honesty that you belive a guy in this situation is straight ?


No, you aren't getting this. Women don't see porn the same way men do. They aren't necessarily looking at the woman like 'yes I'd like a piece of that', they're thinking more on the lines of 'I bet that feels good for the other woman'. A lesbian may do, they may not. It depends what they use porn for. A straight woman can very much watch lesbian porn without feeling attracted to the women. It's about the acts in it, not the actors.
Explained it far better than I could ^^^

Straight men are attracted to the women when they watch hetero porn
Straight women are attracted to the actions being performed when they watch lesbian porn

It's often said that "Men are visual creatures" and "Women are sensual creatures"

which is probably why on average, a man would prefer to sex a woman who looks good
and a woman would prefer to sex a man who makes them feel good

ofc they are exceptions but im working with averages here...
There was a study that proved this and that it was because of the way society was developing and we were getting more like one giant organism and less alienated but it will stop after the period is over. There are a lot of gay men walking about claiming to be straight also.
Original post by ron202
I personally think that most women are bisexual because there have been studies that show that females get turned on by both genders regardless of how they sexually identify. Also female homosexuality/bisexuality is less stigmatized that the male equivalent & has never been criminalized in many parts of the world because guys find it hot and many women who have homophobic attitudes only seem to be homophobic towards gay/bi males & not gay/bi females so maybe same sex attractions in women is extremely common. Also many women are very touch with other women and do stuff like holding hands or hugging in the same way that they would hug a guy that they are romantically involved with & nobody bats an eyelid but if guys were to do the same thing they would be called gay plus many women who claim to be "straight" like to check out other women and also watch lesbian porn so it makes me wonder 🤔


We can live in hope. Nomsayin? :colone:
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
No, you aren't getting this. Women don't see porn the same way men do. They aren't necessarily looking at the woman like 'yes I'd like a piece of that', they're thinking more on the lines of 'I bet that feels good for the other woman'. A lesbian may do, they may not. It depends what they use porn for. A straight woman can very much watch lesbian porn without feeling attracted to the women. It's about the acts in it, not the actors.

You didn't answer the question. I compared the acts in gay porn rather than the gay actors and posed a questiom and you completely ignored it. Straight men don't gay porn and straight women don't get turned on by lesbian porn, you're clearly in denial 🤔.
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
A straight woman can very much watch lesbian porn without feeling attracted to the women. It's about the acts in it, not the actors.

You're saying that straight women are turned on by acts in lesbian porn as opposed to the women themselves and they think it feels good but they want a man to perform those sex acts on them instead of a woman. Well in lesbian porn they do things like tribbing/rubbing their tits together things that have no possibility of happening in straight porn. If these women are so straight why would they be interested in porn videos where much of the sexual action is things that they wouldn't be interested in as heterosexual women unless you're going to tell me something like straight women are only turned on by stuff like ****ing with a strapon ,kissing and fingers which can all be done in straight sex as opposed to stuff that only happens in lesbian sex.🤔 But they still continue to watch it anyway
Original post by ron202
You're saying that straight women are turned on by acts in lesbian porn as opposed to the women themselves and they think it feels good but they want a man to perform those sex acts on them instead of a woman. Well in lesbian porn they do things like tribbing/rubbing their tits together things that have no possibility of happening in straight porn. If these women are so straight why would they be interested in porn videos where much of the sexual action is things that they wouldn't be interested in as heterosexual women unless you're going to tell me something like straight women are only turned on by stuff like ****ing with a strapon ,kissing and fingers which can all be done in straight sex as opposed to stuff that only happens in lesbian sex.🤔 But they still continue to watch it anyway


Again, porn isn't perfect. I'm not going dignify that last question with an actual response because you are not getting what I'm saying. I'm not going to keep repeating myself for someone that clearly can not understand. When you watch porn, you don't know what's coming up in the video. You can't automatically know whether you will 100% enjoy everything in it. Many women switch between videos. I know plenty of straight women who enjoy lesbian porn, and do not enjoy the idea of being with a woman. They enjoy the idea of oral sex, rather than oral sex with a woman. Things are not as black and white as you think they are. Again, I am a bisexual woman. I am more in tune with how women think and enjoy this kind of material.
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
Again, porn isn't perfect. I'm not going dignify that last question with an actual response because you are not getting what I'm saying. I'm not going to keep repeating myself for someone that clearly can not understand. When you watch porn, you don't know what's coming up in the video. You can't automatically know whether you will 100% enjoy everything in it. Many women switch between videos. I know plenty of straight women who enjoy lesbian porn, and do not enjoy the idea of being with a woman. They enjoy the idea of oral sex, rather than oral sex with a woman. Things are not as black and white as you think they are. Again, I am a bisexual woman. I am more in tune with how women think and enjoy this kind of material.
you refuse to answer my question because it disproves your idea that straight women somehow enjoy lesbian porn and proves my point that maybe most women are bisexual. When comes to the idea of straight guys watching gay porn everyone will point out that logic tells you they aren't straight but when it comes to supposed straight women enjoying lesbian all of a sudden logic doesn't apply
Original post by ron202
you refuse to answer my question because it disproves your idea that straight women somehow enjoy lesbian porn and proves my point that maybe most women are bisexual. When comes to the idea of straight guys watching gay porn everyone will point out that logic tells you they aren't straight but when it comes to supposed straight women enjoying lesbian all of a sudden logic doesn't apply


It realllly does not. Straight women can enjoy lesbian porn without it making them lesbian or bisexual. Most women are not bisexual. Frankly, it's a pretty offensive stance to take and I am incredibly sick of the way you refuse to listen to the people who genuinely understand because they are the people you are trying to speak for. I am no longer interested in debating this with you.
As a straight girl, i definitely admire and check out more women thn guys. I'm not gay tho, I wouldn't ever have sex with one
Original post by Reality Check
'studies show'.

What 'studies'?

PS - it's common in Muslim countries for men to hold hands. Do you think that means they're bisexual too...?



This made me laugh
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Original post by chelseadagg3r
It realllly does not. Straight women can enjoy lesbian porn without it making them lesbian or bisexual. Most women are not bisexual. Frankly, it's a pretty offensive stance to take and I am incredibly sick of the way you refuse to listen to the people who genuinely understand because they are the people you are trying to speak for. I am no longer interested in debating this with you.

Lmao what kind of bs double standards is that? The honest truth is that any woman who gets off to other women isn't straight, you don't have to acknowledgeit but it's true
Original post by ron202
Lmao what kind of bs double standards is that? The honest truth is that any woman who gets off to other women isn't straight, you don't have to acknowledgeit but it's true


Still a no.

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Original post by chelseadagg3r
It realllly does not. Straight women can enjoy lesbian porn without it making them lesbian or bisexual. Most women are not bisexual. Frankly, it's a pretty offensive stance to take and I am incredibly sick of the way you refuse to listen to the people who genuinely understand because they are the people you are trying to speak for. I am no longer interested in debating this with you.
Reply 38
Original post by chelseadagg3r
It really doesn't. Plenty of straight women watch lesbian pornography. Until you become a woman, you can't really talk about what women look for in pornography. Studies have shown it's different to men.

Women look for stuff that appeals to their needs. Since a lot of male/female stuff doesn’t address what straight women desire, it makes sense that they’d look elsewhere. Equally, most male/female stuff comes from the male perspective. Not so enjoyable for a woman in a lot of cases, hence the 'female friendly' thing of lesbian pornography.


So straight women desire to eat ****? Lesbian porn also 'comes from the male perspective' as it's a male fantasy. I presume heterosexual women mainly watch solo male/gay porn. But I'm not denying that bisexual women exist, and that there is a much higher percentage of them now-a-days. I mainly put that down to female homosexuality being far less stigmatised (if at all) than male homosexuality.
Reply 39
I think there are likely degrees of bisexuality. I'm only able to talk about my experiences, but women often seem further along that spectrum than guys. In my case, and many guys' cases, I think we're often a dead zero in a way that women often aren't.

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