Ok think of exo and endothermic reactions as people.
An exothermic couple release energy because they're making babies because they're bonded by love (and another way if you know what I'm sayin' amirite or amirite )
An endothermic couple argues loads so they bottle in loads of energy until they divorce and break their bond.
Endo- means 'inside' like you need to provide the energy and exo- is always 'outside'. See the pattern - it shows the direction of the flow of energy.
Not sure if it's little, but if you know a bit about orbital theory then you know that bonds are spontaneously created only because a new molecular bonding molecular has lower energy than the sum of two atomic orbitals that overlapped to create the bond. If energy was needed to create a bond, then most elements would be in their free form. (I guess this is quite simplified just not to get too deep into quntum chemistry) That's why you need to deliver energy in order to break bonds and the energy is radiated while the bond is being created.
I guess this is not what you were looking for, but if you understand the rule, it will be no longer a problem for you. Maybe someone knows some easier way.
Does anyone have a good way of remembering that exothermic means bond making, and endothermic means bond breaking?
Does it?
In almost every reaction some bonds are broken and some are created, it is a difference between their energies that makes the reaction exo- or endothermic.