A paedophile is a paedophile, regardless of the gender of the offender or the victim.
This is an "adult" (I use the word in the bodily sense only), justifying the emotional and sexual exploitation of a minor. If a man had written it, or voiced views like this, he would rightly be branded as a child abuser for life. By taking this stance using the shield of feminism as a lame excuse for her personal views, she gives not just feminists but all women a bad name. Let's get this straight from the start: Women kill. Women lie. And women also abuse children, just as men do. It's just that society doesn't like to accept this last great taboo, unless it's tested in court.
There are a couple of fundamental assumptions in Ms Ellen's argument, one of which she should know, having been a teenage girl, and one of which she can't, as she's never been a teenage boy.
Firstly, teenage girls are invariably more emotionally and sexually mature for their age than teenage boys. Assuming parity is not reasonable. Therefore a female adult taking advantage of a boy under her protection is actually abusing a child emotiionally younger than her own experience of being that age. She should be acutely aware of this.
Secondly, she assumes that all teenage boys are care free and "up for it" without any consequence; that they all mature at the same rate and age; and come from stable backgrounds. The sexual exploitation of young boys, which she is advocating, does not take into account that there is a significant percentage of boys who have come from home where being sexually, psychologically or emotiionally abused is the norm, whether by a male or female adult, or both. To ignore this fact and just wash it away with a withering, unaccountable and selfish statement that teenage boys are "up for it" speaks volumes of her own inexperience in the world, combined with what I suspect from her writing is a self-centred, narcissistic approach to the responsibilities of being an adult female.
Let's be clear: Promoting the exploitation of any person to whom one is in a superior position, let alone a minor, is utterly unacceptable.
It's what people trafficking, sexual enslavement and paedophilia is based upon. She blithly ignores this fact.
Advocating such views, especially publicly, is morally unacceptable. The line is drawn in law at a fixed age for boys and girls for a reason. For some, it's undoubtedly well past the age where they are capable of handling a "relationship" (I used the term loosely) with an adult. For others, it is sadly still not old enough.
Whichever, the line is much harder, and rightly so, for those who have children in their care, such as teachers and care workers, which is why relationships between teachers and pupils over the age of legal consent is so strongly discouraged. Those in charge of minors have a legal obligation. Those in charge of young adults, a moral one. Either way, being involved with someone whom reports to you in either the classroom or at work will always raise questions of impartiality and favouritism, and should be avoided by anyone with a sound, logical mind.
Personally? I'd like to see her on the sex offender's register, as she is obivously a danger to minors with views like this.
Expounding them in a (previously?) respectable newspaper makes her all the more so.
If I were her editor, male or female, I'd be telling her to clear her desk.