Why don't strict asian parents want their kid to marry a white person

I'm asian and I've been on dates with white men and other races. I think if you grow up as a minority in a country it seems close minded if you aren't willing to go on a date with someone in the country you live in or other races.
I know a few asian people who want to stick to their own solely and it seems backward to me.
I also have been on dates with other asians. I know asians who have dated white people only. Also seems odd to me/like they aren't happy with their own race as even now interracial dating isn't that common so how come they didn't go on a date with someone the same race as themselves

I'm Indian and my mum gave me the "you'll-be-dead-and-disowned" glare just for suggesting Pakistani guys are hot... Idk what she'd do if I date a white person.

if you fell in love with a white man and he loved you to pieces and you loved him, why would she mind?

All I can say is: RIP me if that happens

This isn't answering the thread, why would she care?
I'm Asian and I've been on dates with white and asian men. Realistically, I think who I end up with in the end might be another asian cos even now interracial marriage isn't that common. Also there can be culture clash. If you fall in love with someone of your own culture that might be easier in the long-run. But if I fell in love with a white man and it worked I don't understand why people would be against it/what is the problem?

In my culture the only reason I can think of is because of language.
The girl or boy would only be able to communicate with their partner in English, this means if they have future children, then they won’t learn their mother tongue or father tongue. There are some who do but that’s because the parents actually cared and went to the doctors to see how to raise their kids to be multilingual.
That’s the only reason I won’t marry out of my ethnicity. I love my language and it’s so sweet too so I can’t just imagine speaking English with my kids and husband.
I have a family member who married a Eritrean woman, she’s very sweet but even though they both speak two beautiful languages, their kids just speak in English.
Language is culture, if you don’t know it then you won’t fit in with the family.

In my culture the only reason I can think of is because of language.
The girl or boy would only be able to communicate with their partner in English, this means if they have future children, then they won’t learn their mother tongue or father tongue. There are some who do but that’s because the parents actually cared and went to the doctors to see how to raise their kids to be multilingual.
That’s the only reason I won’t marry out of my ethnicity. I love my language and it’s so sweet too so I can’t just imagine speaking English with my kids and husband.
I have a family member who married a Eritrean woman, she’s very sweet but even though they both speak two beautiful languages, their kids just speak in English.
Language is culture, if you don’t know it then you won’t fit in with the family.

I might lean towards another hindu - because even now interracial dating isn't that common and sometimes I think, if I can already marry a great guy of my own culture then why not. I know some asians who date white only and it seems a bit suspect to me - the stereotypical "coconut" type... But if I connected with someone of a different culture and it worked, I don't think it matters.

Language is culture, if you don’t know it then you won’t fit in with the family.

That's bull****. My spouse of 9 years is Russian and speaks Russian around family. I only know a little. It hasn't got in the way of our relationship at all. We plan on raising our kids to speak Russian and English because language is such a gift but it definitely doesn't get in the way of relationships.

Yehhhh same, tbh If I met a guy that we instantly got along with each other and truly loved each other, I’d teach him my language like bits and pieces and I’d still plan for my kids to learn the language too. But I know two other languages besides English so that’s going to be hard and my husband might know another or two beside English too. That’s where it gets tricky.
Otherwise I don’t mind but like you said, if there is a guy in my own ethnicity that speaks the same language as me and is great then I’m going to defo pick them.

That's bull****. My spouse of 9 years is Russian and speaks Russian around family. I only know a little. It hasn't got in the way of our relationship at all. We plan on raising our kids to speak Russian and English because language is such a gift but it definitely doesn't get in the way of relationships.

Some asian parents are staunch traditionalists that expect the next generation to comply with centuries of family customs, ancient religious practices/scriptural content and their favourite cultural traditions.
Many genuinely believe that they have found the ideal template for life and all alternatives or other lifestyles are absolutely horrifying to them.

This often involves placing huge emphasis upon: caste, an arranged marriage, religious endogamy, prohibiting/strong disapproval of intimate pre-marital sexual activity and only considering a potential spouse whose background & asset level is deemed suitable by parents/grandparents/most extended family members.
Plenty of non-asian traditionalists and conservatives take a similar stance as regards their own family traditions, cultural customs and religious teachings.