Should I have surgery to reduce the size of my penis?
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Become a porn star. Or just find a slag with a bucket.
Original post by Anonymous
Well I appreciate your advice, but I do love my girlfriend, so I'm not just going to dump her over something like this.
Besides I'm fairly sure I'd have the same problem with most girls.
Besides I'm fairly sure I'd have the same problem with most girls.
Frankly the length shouldn't be a problem. Ok, it won't be as satisfying to you but you could merely not fully penetrate her. No, if it's really a problem it could well be the girth which sounds more difficult to fix.
My case isn't quite as extreme as yours but I know how you feel. I haven't had the same situation as you but I've had a similar one. What did you try before you stopped having penetrative sex?
Original post by Rakas21
Basically the same as above, he may have been big but all studies suggest that women struggle to measure penis size visually.
She didn't measure him visually.
trust me... as a woman having something wide forced up there is not fun (why do you think fisting only happens in porn) length i can see being that much of an issue (unless your a donkey) i think 8 inches is the maximum ive encounter and the 6.5 inch girth is more painful than the length
although over all i dont understand why most men would want bigger, i think the average 6 inches is the most comfortable for both parties
judge whether its worth it, do you really want to have major surgery for a relationship that might not last and as you have said there are dangers (if porn teaches us anything its that there are women out there you will fit in lol)
although over all i dont understand why most men would want bigger, i think the average 6 inches is the most comfortable for both parties
judge whether its worth it, do you really want to have major surgery for a relationship that might not last and as you have said there are dangers (if porn teaches us anything its that there are women out there you will fit in lol)
Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox
How old are you?
A year, in my opinion, isn't long enough to be with somebody to decide that you're serious enough about them to chop off half of your penis.
Actually if it's too long it can be quite painful.
A year, in my opinion, isn't long enough to be with somebody to decide that you're serious enough about them to chop off half of your penis.
Actually if it's too long it can be quite painful.
This is true. Would rep but can't do it again so soon. It's not half his penis but I see your point.
Also true but the difference is with length you have control over what she takes, with girth you don't
Original post by desdemonata
She didn't measure him visually.
Lucky him then.
It is possible but the statistical likely-hood of such size is so low versus the number of people who claim such a size that i instantly doubt all claims (5% of the population are 8+, of those 1% are 9+ and so to be 10+ is cataclysmic small).
Original post by Rakas21
Lucky him then.
It is possible but the statistical likely-hood of such size is so low versus the number of people who claim such a size that i instantly doubt all claims (5% of the population are 8+, of those 1% are 9+ and so to be 10+ is cataclysmic small).
It is possible but the statistical likely-hood of such size is so low versus the number of people who claim such a size that i instantly doubt all claims (5% of the population are 8+, of those 1% are 9+ and so to be 10+ is cataclysmic small).
Yeah, I know what you mean. I've had girls claim their boyfriend was 11-12 inches
Yeah, sure.
not so lucky for her. She regretted agreeing to it afterwards.Original post by Rakas21
Firstly the statistical likelihood of a natural 9.5 is so remote that i'm calling bull**** or suggesting you watch a video on how to measure properly.
Oh please, get over your own insecurities. Just because you have an average to small penis doesn't mean there aren't guys with huge dongs. I'm not as big as OP but so many people call bull on my size yet when girls see it it's a different story.
Original post by Rakas21
Firstly the statistical likelyhood of a natural 9.5 is so remote that i'm calling bull**** or suggesting you watch a video on how to measure properly.
Well I just placed a ruler on top and measure from the base to the tip, not sure if that's the correct method of measuring, but the precise size isn't too important. It's big enough that I can't have sex with my girlfriend without causing her pain and that's the issue I want to solve.
Original post by Rakas21
1) You may simply not be getting her to a sufficient level of arousal
I don't think that's it, we usually spent a long time on foreplay about 30-40 minutes before she would even let me try to penetrate her. We even tried usually loads of water based lube to help.
Original post by Rakas21
2) The fact you go a long time without means that the vagina will not stay in an expanded state
We have stopped attempting penetrative sex entirely now, but before that, during the first few months of our relationship, we were attempting intercourse pretty regularly. So I don't think it's that either tbh.
Original post by Rakas21
3) Some girls have sensitive cervix's and so especially when you are on top your angle of attack may be causing an issue there, you need to try get underneath which is easier ****ing her from behind in order to get the cul-de-sac.
This is more likely. The problem will be getting her to try it -I think by now just the thought of having full sex with me terrifies her.
Original post by Rakas21
Also, did you go balls deep?
No, I never went further than about 7 inches (not intentionally anyway) if I went further than that she cry out in pain and we'd have to stop.
Original post by alexs2602
Oh please, get over your own insecurities. Just because you have an average to small penis doesn't mean there aren't guys with huge dongs. I'm not as big as OP but so many people call bull on my size yet when girls see it it's a different story.
I'm 7.2*5.6 so hardly insecure.
One of my many interests is the human body and so i have joined in the past a penis related website where the subject was discussed extensively and studies were looked at. If your in that 5% of people with 8+ then congratulations but given the number of people who claim such a size versus the statistical likelyhood i'm instantly pessimistic of such claims.
Original post by Anonymous
Well I just placed a ruler on top and measure from the base to the tip, not sure if that's the correct method of measuring, but the precise size isn't too important. It's big enough that I can't have sex with my girlfriend without causing her pain and that's the issue I want to solve.
I don't think that's it, we usually spent a long time on foreplay about 30-40 minutes before she would even let me try to penetrate her. We even tried usually loads of water based lube to help.
We have stopped attempting penetrative sex entirely now, but before that, during the first few months of our relationship, we were attempting intercourse pretty regularly. So I don't think it's that either tbh.
This is more likely. The problem will be getting her to try it -I think by now just the thought of having full sex with me terrifies her.
No, I never went further than about 7 inches (not intentionally anyway) if I went further than that she cry out in pain and we'd have to stop.
I don't think that's it, we usually spent a long time on foreplay about 30-40 minutes before she would even let me try to penetrate her. We even tried usually loads of water based lube to help.
We have stopped attempting penetrative sex entirely now, but before that, during the first few months of our relationship, we were attempting intercourse pretty regularly. So I don't think it's that either tbh.
This is more likely. The problem will be getting her to try it -I think by now just the thought of having full sex with me terrifies her.
No, I never went further than about 7 inches (not intentionally anyway) if I went further than that she cry out in pain and we'd have to stop.
Cool, like i say just certain positions in which your penis sticks to the bottom of the vagina to dip under the cervix.
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Original post by Rakas21
One of my many interests is the human body and so i have joined in the past a penis related website
Only on the interwebs.Original post by MancStudent098 Only on the interwebs.
Only on the interwebs.The internet is brilliant!
How many guys can say they don't love their penis, it really is brilliant.
Original post by Rakas21
Cool, like i say just certain positions in which your penis sticks to the bottom of the vagina to dip under the cervix (i assume you have a slight upward curve which will amplify the problem in missionary for example).
Cool, like i say just certain positions in which your penis sticks to the bottom of the vagina to dip under the cervix (i assume you have a slight upward curve which will amplify the problem in missionary for example).
Yeah it does curve upwards and also slightly to the left.
So the best position to avoid hitting the cervix would be from behind, with her on laying on her front? Or with her on all fours, doggy style?
Thanks for your advice btw!
I don't know if you're actually serious!? I'll assume so!
GOOD GOD NO! PLEASE! You know how many girls would LOVE a guy like you? What happens if you reduce the size of your ting and your girlfriend leaves you?
Think about this... in one year, 2 years, or 5 years what will i regret having done?
It's a matter of training per se... be gentle. Yes it's going to be torturous for you at times, but eventually your girlfriend will be used to your size.
#DontBeLeftWithABatteredSausage
GOOD GOD NO! PLEASE! You know how many girls would LOVE a guy like you? What happens if you reduce the size of your ting and your girlfriend leaves you?
Think about this... in one year, 2 years, or 5 years what will i regret having done?
It's a matter of training per se... be gentle. Yes it's going to be torturous for you at times, but eventually your girlfriend will be used to your size.
#DontBeLeftWithABatteredSausage
Original post by Rakas21
Firstly the statistical likelyhood of a natural 9.5 is so remote that i'm calling bull**** or suggesting you watch a video on how to measure properly.
That aside, i shall go with it..
1) You may simply not be getting her to a sufficient level of arousal
2) The fact you go a long time without means that the vagina will not stay in an expanded state
3) Some girls have sensitive cervix's and so especially when you are on top your angle of attack may be causing an issue there, you need to try get underneath which is easier ****ing her from behind in order to get the cul-de-sac.
Also, did you go balls deep?
Basically the same as above, he may have been big but all studies suggest that women struggle to measure penis size visually.
That aside, i shall go with it..
1) You may simply not be getting her to a sufficient level of arousal
2) The fact you go a long time without means that the vagina will not stay in an expanded state
3) Some girls have sensitive cervix's and so especially when you are on top your angle of attack may be causing an issue there, you need to try get underneath which is easier ****ing her from behind in order to get the cul-de-sac.
Also, did you go balls deep?
Basically the same as above, he may have been big but all studies suggest that women struggle to measure penis size visually.
I beg to differ. I am a similar size and a few guys I know are too. 9.5" isn't freakishly huge.....
Original post by alexs2602
This is true. Would rep but can't do it again so soon. It's not half his penis but I see your point.
Also true but the difference is with length you have control over what she takes, with girth you don't
Also true but the difference is with length you have control over what she takes, with girth you don't
You couldn't really relax though, could you? You'd have to be careful and take things slowly the full time, and it wouldn't give you the chance to have a free sex life.
Consider you may not be with her forever, that this is an irreversible operation with the possibility of consequences I'd rather not think about and that some girls may actually like your size and be less selfish towards sex
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she sounds a lil selfish, oral in turn for a handjob "because she chokes?" she doesnt have to swallow the bloody thing.
i've been with someone with 9 and a half inches before, as long as you're gentle and not battering the cervix like there's no tomorrow it shouldnt be as painful as shes making out, certainly not painful enough for surgery! Dear god man you've only been with her a year!
i've been with someone with 9 and a half inches before, as long as you're gentle and not battering the cervix like there's no tomorrow it shouldnt be as painful as shes making out, certainly not painful enough for surgery! Dear god man you've only been with her a year!
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