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Girlfriend wants me to get fit

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Any girl who is shallow enough to think about leaving someone just because of putting on some weight (through no direct fault of their own), is not worth being with.

lol, I'm sorry, but I told my husband before we got married if he got fat, I'd leave him (he was cool with this). I don't care how shallow it is, I'm not going to be with a sloppy, physically unkempt person because it shows laziness of character. Physical attraction is a very real thing, and a relationship does not survive without it.

edit to add: I'd not let myself get fat either, and wouldn't expect him to accept it from me, either.

(edited 12 years ago)

Reply 21

Jimbo1234

Original post by Onlyboyintheworld

Hi, firstly this is on behalf of my best mate. Hes 18 years old. He has been going out with the same girl since they were 15 and it was all going well till recently. My mate is 5 foot 9 inches tall average build and used to be a slender 11 stone 7 and had a lean 31'' waist. Sadly though he was involved in an accident which left him off work for 6 months, and in a wheelchair. ( He has recoved fully now) During that time however he gained weight. He now weighs a hefty 13 stone 7 pounds and his waist has increased to 36''. His girl friend says she doesnt find him attractive now and is threatening to leave him. He says he's happy with his body. What should he do ? Is he overweight ? Should he dump her ? Is she right ?

She is right.
If "he" looked like that when they first met, then she would not have dated him.
Therefore, either cut the fat or break up.

Reply 22

kingkongjaffa

Original post by Alux

Become zyzz

dump her

plan?

become zyzz

zyzz

u mirin brah

this x1000

Reply 23

DontBeJelBeReem

Original post by kingkongjaffa

become zyzz

zyzz

u mirin brah

this x1000

alright... its time to talk 1 on 1 with every1 here,

listen carefully brah's....

THIS IS A REVOLUTION!

Reply 24

Steevee

Original post by kingkongjaffa

become zyzz

zyzz

u mirin brah

this x1000

Die naked in a sauna after an evening with a Thai ladyboy?

I may have added the last part :mmm:

Reply 25

insomniacramblings

Original post by Steevee

Die naked in a sauna after an evening with a Thai ladyboy?

I may have added the last part :mmm:

Good job, Dave man. :sexface:

Reply 26

XXchachaXX

Original post by Aack

My advice for your mate:

1) Get aids
2) Loose weight
3) Give her aids

That's horrible but it made me laugh so hard :rofl:

to the OP: just lose some weight, not only the relationship with your girlfriend but even your health will greatly benefit from it :wink:

Reply 27

DontBeJelBeReem

Original post by Steevee

Die naked in a sauna after an evening with a Thai ladyboy?

I may have added the last part :mmm:

Dont be hating on zyzz, with an academic info like this..

GCSE

A*AAAAAAAABB

B's in English.

AS Level

A - History
C - Physics
D- Chemistry

you have a long way to go brother.
HATERS GON HATE.

Reply 28

Steevee

Original post by DontBeJelBeReem

Dont be hating on zyzz, with an academic info like this..

GCSE

A*AAAAAAAABB

B's in English.

AS Level

A - History
C - Physics
D- Chemistry

you have a long way to go brother.
HATERS GON HATE.

Hatin' on him? People like you do make me chuckle :mmm:

Reply 29

Felchingman

He has no reason to be happy with his body, he should try to return to his pre-accident weight.
The gf is rubbish, just leave him instead of threatening him.

Reply 30

f1mad

Original post by dontbejelbereem

haters gon hate.

potatoes gon potate.
'mirers gon 'mire.

Reply 31

McHumpy92

Original post by Alux

Become zyzz

dump her

plan?

Lol this...train and look great, then upgrade.

Reply 32

Br1stol

Original post by sarahoo

Wow some people are soo superficial. Ok i understand that it is the attration when you first meet but when you are married surely that becomes less important too you? I mean i know i wouldnt be happy if my partner gained a huuuge amount of weight simply as it is not looking after herself but i wouldnt threaten to leave them because of it. So what happend if your husband managed to get a big scar on his body or lost all his hair or something, would you leave him to because the physical attraction has been affected?

Reply 33

jennycb123

If she's threatened to dump you if you don't get fit, forget her.

Reply 34

McHumpy92

No one wants to be with someone that is a mess. Why should someone stay with someone they don't find physically attractive?...oh just so they don't get called 'superficial' by fuglies on TSR.

Reply 35

whatisthis47

If he's happy then she should accept it; if she can't accept it then he should leave her - there's no point in staying with someone who is only happy if you look good. Simples.