Yes, the metric does depend on
τ when you write it in that form. But the correct way to write the Lagrangian is like this:
L(τ,xσ,x˙σ)=gμν(xσ)x˙μx˙ν. In this form it's clear that there's no
τ dependence. L is to be understood as a function of 9 independent variables here. Again, this is difficult to explain due to poor notation - the point is, at the stage where you're partial-differentiating the Lagrangian, you haven't yet put in the relation between
xσ and
τ yet, but when you do the total-differentiation, you have set
xσ to be the coordinate along some path.
Yes. This is a physics question, not a geometry question.
f,ν is defined as differentiating a function w.r.t. to the coordinates. There are bases which may not correspond to
any coordinate chart at all. For instance, I might work in an orthonormalised polar coordinate system where
e1=∂r∂,e2=r1∂θ∂,e3=rsinθ1∂ϕ∂. Then,
e2(f)=r1∂θ∂f but
f,2=∂θ∂f. Perhaps this is indicative of bad notation...