Most of these are ludicrous.
For instance: When I am told about our national heritage or about “civilization,” I am shown that people of my color made it what it is.
This is because Western countries and civilisation are essentially the work of white people. If an Eskimo moves to Vienna do you expect Austrians to somehow make him feel like his ancestors were part and partial of the works of Mozart?
I can if I wish arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.
This is because the country is vast majority white. And what about if you're a white kid in Bethnal Green? You'd find it hard to be in the company of just white people let me tell you for the same reason.
I can take a job with an affirmative action employer without having co-workers on the job suspect that I got it because of race.
Reasonable suspicion. The M.O. of AM programmes is to exactly what they suspect after all.
I can go into a music shop and count on finding the music of my race represented, into a supermarket and find the staple foods which fit with my cultural traditions, into a hairdresser’s shop and find someone who can cut my hair.
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I can easily buy posters, postcards, picture books, greeting cards, dolls, toys, and children’s magazine featuring people of my race.
I can choose blemish cover or bandages in “flesh” color and have them more or less match my skin.
Again, this is because minorities are, well minorities. If I move to China I wouldnt be angry that the majority of profit seeking shops catered for the Chinese majority, and if I did I'd expect to be told to STFU. And anyway, what's to stop people setting up these enterprises themselves? There is not a thing stopping it.
I can turn on the television or open to the front page of the paper and see people of my race widely represented.
You dont think minorities are on TV roughly 90% of the time? I.e. in line with the % of the population.
I can criticize our government and talk about how much I fear its policies and behavior without being seen as a cultural outsider.
Depends on the context. If you make a case against general fiscal policy or on devolution etc then people will judge the arguement. If however your criticisms are explicitly centred on racial/ethnic issues then of course you'll be perceived as a cultural outsider, because you yourself have set yourself up in that way. . It makes no sense to rant about racial issues to white people and then be amazed when you're seen as coming from a different background as them.