i'm 22..and i've only slept with 2 women?
Is that bad? all my friends have slept with a lot more women and always have GF's.
I'm always single but can't get over my shyness. Am i doomed?
I'm always single but can't get over my shyness. Am i doomed?
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I'm 21 and I've never had a relationship at all.
Excuse me while I get the smallest Violin I can find and play a ****ing concerto about how miserable your situation is.
Excuse me while I get the smallest Violin I can find and play a ****ing concerto about how miserable your situation is.
thats 2 more than me and im almost 22
I'm just turning 22 and I've slept with 3.. It's not much more and tbh it may as well just be 1 bcuz the first 2 were stupid and I still basically knew nothing about sex until I was with my current boyfriend! lol in my group of friends I've slept with the most guys and I don't want to sleep with anymore. I think 2/3 is a lot, but it means loads to me being close to someone
You shouldn't compare yourself to your friends
You shouldn't compare yourself to your friends
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you are not DOOMED - that is such an over exaggeration
im a girl and im nearly 21.. ive slept with like 12 people ( all one night stands ) safe though with condoms. i have a bigger list aswell of people but i never went the whole way with them. but im trying to say ive been with lots of people but none of them meant anything to me. i cant tell you any of their names cant remember.
never had a boyfriend. not keen on one either. im up for a fwb but thats it. i think i have intimacy issues and fear of commitment etc. i duno my parents divorced when i was 8 and ive suffered abuse. maybe i have walls up or something i dont know. im sure when i can afford a shrink i will get help and sort myself out.
so far ive never felt emotional about anyone you know the whole love thing ?! i dont get that ... i get passion and sexually attracted to people but thats it. maybe im just cold hearted.
there could be worse things thats what im trying to say. i have had meaningless sex sure it feels good but afterwards i leave or i tell them to go. op you should find someone who you want to sleep with then cuddle afterwards and have a intimate relationship emotionally and physically. im not saying you save it til you get married or something but find someone who you like and trust and feel comfortable with and most of all you want them in your life to see them everyday or at least a few times a week.
i dont like cuddling its weird or holding hands totally not me.
im trying to refrain from having any more one night stands and basically just behave myself. its been 14 months now. i know its odd i love having sex so why am i not having any ? i basically felt addicted to it soon as i got up thats all i was thinking about until i went sleep. sure its the same way i have a high sex drive. im still the same person but i didnt want to end up going out every night and getting laid by some random lad.
maybe im waiting til i meet someone just as emotionally screwed up as i am so i can have some sort of fwb thing going. most of the time it feels like what the hell am i doing, i guess im trying to condition myself into thinking i can have a normal intimate emotional relationship with someone someday like every i know. i know some girls who have been with the same bf for like 4 years. i havnt even been able to txt the same lad for like more then 2 weeks. i just get bored or something. i have issues lol
this had made me question the im not going to have sex thing until i feel something emotional for someone game im playing. wonder long more i can keep it up haha
never had a boyfriend. not keen on one either. im up for a fwb but thats it. i think i have intimacy issues and fear of commitment etc. i duno my parents divorced when i was 8 and ive suffered abuse. maybe i have walls up or something i dont know. im sure when i can afford a shrink i will get help and sort myself out.
so far ive never felt emotional about anyone you know the whole love thing ?! i dont get that ... i get passion and sexually attracted to people but thats it. maybe im just cold hearted.
there could be worse things thats what im trying to say. i have had meaningless sex sure it feels good but afterwards i leave or i tell them to go. op you should find someone who you want to sleep with then cuddle afterwards and have a intimate relationship emotionally and physically. im not saying you save it til you get married or something but find someone who you like and trust and feel comfortable with and most of all you want them in your life to see them everyday or at least a few times a week.
i dont like cuddling its weird or holding hands totally not me.
im trying to refrain from having any more one night stands and basically just behave myself. its been 14 months now. i know its odd i love having sex so why am i not having any ? i basically felt addicted to it soon as i got up thats all i was thinking about until i went sleep. sure its the same way i have a high sex drive. im still the same person but i didnt want to end up going out every night and getting laid by some random lad.
maybe im waiting til i meet someone just as emotionally screwed up as i am so i can have some sort of fwb thing going. most of the time it feels like what the hell am i doing, i guess im trying to condition myself into thinking i can have a normal intimate emotional relationship with someone someday like every i know. i know some girls who have been with the same bf for like 4 years. i havnt even been able to txt the same lad for like more then 2 weeks. i just get bored or something. i have issues lol
this had made me question the im not going to have sex thing until i feel something emotional for someone game im playing. wonder long more i can keep it up haha
I can understand people saying 'Oh I've never had sex' if it is because they're constantly turned down and it's just a byproduct of them being unable to get relationships or not being socially successful, because obviously that's a result. If you feel unattractive and people turn you down, then obviously you won't have sex.
But if you're actually capable of getting people to sleep with you or be intimate with you, then you're a lot more successful than those who can't even get dates.
So, ipso facto....shut up.
But if you're actually capable of getting people to sleep with you or be intimate with you, then you're a lot more successful than those who can't even get dates.
So, ipso facto....shut up.
i was 24 or 25 till I had sex for the first time. adn the 1st time was awful.
Ive now had sex with 22 or 23 women; also all awful pretty much.
Either they were ugly or I was so self conscious I could barely get an erection.
So now Im not in a hurry to just have sex...I wanna get girls im properly attracted to (more desiable ones = harder to get by proxy) even if it takes more effort as there is no point to me shagging ugly girls im not into as tbh its worse than having a ****; really.
Ive now had sex with 22 or 23 women; also all awful pretty much.
Either they were ugly or I was so self conscious I could barely get an erection.
So now Im not in a hurry to just have sex...I wanna get girls im properly attracted to (more desiable ones = harder to get by proxy) even if it takes more effort as there is no point to me shagging ugly girls im not into as tbh its worse than having a ****; really.
I'm 21, good lookin, I don't remember how many i had...
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
The illiterate egotistical bag of sexism has a valid point and you should follow his example.
Truly, he is a social bastion and we should all aspire to such status.
Truly, he is a social bastion and we should all aspire to such status.
Original post by DamnDirtyGrapes
The illiterate egotistical bag of sexism has a valid point and you should follow his example.
Truly, he is a social bastion and we should all aspire to such status.
Truly, he is a social bastion and we should all aspire to such status.
Great, now there's tea all over my new laptop
Original post by Anonymous
im a girl and im nearly 21.. ive slept with like 12 people ( all one night stands ) safe though with condoms. i have a bigger list aswell of people but i never went the whole way with them. but im trying to say ive been with lots of people but none of them meant anything to me. i cant tell you any of their names cant remember.
never had a boyfriend. not keen on one either. im up for a fwb but thats it. i think i have intimacy issues and fear of commitment etc. i duno my parents divorced when i was 8 and ive suffered abuse. maybe i have walls up or something i dont know. im sure when i can afford a shrink i will get help and sort myself out.
so far ive never felt emotional about anyone you know the whole love thing ?! i dont get that ... i get passion and sexually attracted to people but thats it. maybe im just cold hearted.
there could be worse things thats what im trying to say. i have had meaningless sex sure it feels good but afterwards i leave or i tell them to go. op you should find someone who you want to sleep with then cuddle afterwards and have a intimate relationship emotionally and physically. im not saying you save it til you get married or something but find someone who you like and trust and feel comfortable with and most of all you want them in your life to see them everyday or at least a few times a week.
i dont like cuddling its weird or holding hands totally not me.
im trying to refrain from having any more one night stands and basically just behave myself. its been 14 months now. i know its odd i love having sex so why am i not having any ? i basically felt addicted to it soon as i got up thats all i was thinking about until i went sleep. sure its the same way i have a high sex drive. im still the same person but i didnt want to end up going out every night and getting laid by some random lad.
maybe im waiting til i meet someone just as emotionally screwed up as i am so i can have some sort of fwb thing going. most of the time it feels like what the hell am i doing, i guess im trying to condition myself into thinking i can have a normal intimate emotional relationship with someone someday like every i know. i know some girls who have been with the same bf for like 4 years. i havnt even been able to txt the same lad for like more then 2 weeks. i just get bored or something. i have issues lol
this had made me question the im not going to have sex thing until i feel something emotional for someone game im playing. wonder long more i can keep it up haha
never had a boyfriend. not keen on one either. im up for a fwb but thats it. i think i have intimacy issues and fear of commitment etc. i duno my parents divorced when i was 8 and ive suffered abuse. maybe i have walls up or something i dont know. im sure when i can afford a shrink i will get help and sort myself out.
so far ive never felt emotional about anyone you know the whole love thing ?! i dont get that ... i get passion and sexually attracted to people but thats it. maybe im just cold hearted.
there could be worse things thats what im trying to say. i have had meaningless sex sure it feels good but afterwards i leave or i tell them to go. op you should find someone who you want to sleep with then cuddle afterwards and have a intimate relationship emotionally and physically. im not saying you save it til you get married or something but find someone who you like and trust and feel comfortable with and most of all you want them in your life to see them everyday or at least a few times a week.
i dont like cuddling its weird or holding hands totally not me.
im trying to refrain from having any more one night stands and basically just behave myself. its been 14 months now. i know its odd i love having sex so why am i not having any ? i basically felt addicted to it soon as i got up thats all i was thinking about until i went sleep. sure its the same way i have a high sex drive. im still the same person but i didnt want to end up going out every night and getting laid by some random lad.
maybe im waiting til i meet someone just as emotionally screwed up as i am so i can have some sort of fwb thing going. most of the time it feels like what the hell am i doing, i guess im trying to condition myself into thinking i can have a normal intimate emotional relationship with someone someday like every i know. i know some girls who have been with the same bf for like 4 years. i havnt even been able to txt the same lad for like more then 2 weeks. i just get bored or something. i have issues lol
this had made me question the im not going to have sex thing until i feel something emotional for someone game im playing. wonder long more i can keep it up haha
It's no big deal. You sound like several of my college girl mistresses. Learn to have the fun that you want, not what other people tell you that you should want in order to be a good girl. Which is a stupid, hypocritical and self-defeating concept if ever there was one.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21, good lookin, I don't remember how many i had...
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
This sounds like extremely accurate data forma clear professional in the field.
Sooo?
If I had just started seeing a guy, I would rather he had slept with 2 women than 22. I wouldn't even mind he if had never had sex before. Does it really matter how many people you've had sex with?
If I had just started seeing a guy, I would rather he had slept with 2 women than 22. I wouldn't even mind he if had never had sex before. Does it really matter how many people you've had sex with?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21, good lookin, I don't remember how many i had...
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
I got this girl in a club, she comes up to me as says hi, i'm like hi, then she says do you remember me? i'm like no... who r u? We had sex few month ago... i'm like ooops xD
Wanna go again? -Yeah sure xD
I think i'm a bit over 200 girls?...
And they were all really hot model types...
I'm a model... ^^
Since I'm in London, I get 15-20 girls a month.
An advice, often girls don't really care who they go out with.
Go in a club and look at all the jerks who have a nice lady. srsly guys u already saw that right?
Go talk, have fun, drink, and u'll get confident. But obviously go to the right places. When u'l learn from beein drunk, later u'll be just as confident as when ur drunk.
Cheers.
Thanks for those words of wisdom Casinova.
its fine mate, i know people who are still virgins and people who have slept with about 40+
its just sex, i wouldnt go around dipping your wick in anything tho just to get more numbers
the main thing is why you had sex with them 2 people, just wait till you find someone you want to have sexy time with
and relax sex isnt the most important thing in the world =]
its just sex, i wouldnt go around dipping your wick in anything tho just to get more numbers
the main thing is why you had sex with them 2 people, just wait till you find someone you want to have sexy time with
and relax sex isnt the most important thing in the world =]
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