Why are white guy/oriental girl relationships common but not white girl/oriental guy?
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Original post by Mr Smurf
I do not. 
(self-hate). That you obsessively idolise white girls exclusively and do not seem to consider girls of other ethnicities would suggest this. Essentially you do not just have a "preference" for white girls, but an outright fetish that has long ago stepped into complete obsession. It literally defines you on this forum, maybe in real life also. The self-hate argument is that why do you see white girls as so superior? And as I said above, not just a little better in a "preference" kind of way but in an absolutely excessive way. EDIT; Hope that explains why you self hate
Don't think you will listen though-self haters always gonna self-hate!(edited 11 years ago)
Original post by Mourinho<3
You do (self-hate). That you obsessively idolise white girls exclusively and do not seem to consider girls of other ethnicities would suggest this. Essentially you do not just have a "preference" for white girls, but an outright fetish that has long ago stepped into complete obsession. It literally defines you on this forum, maybe in real life also. The self-hate argument is that why do you see white girls as so superior? And as I said above, not just a little better in a "preference" kind of way but in an absolutely excessive way.
EDIT; Hope that explains why you self hate Don't think you will listen though-self haters always gonna self-hate!
(self-hate). That you obsessively idolise white girls exclusively and do not seem to consider girls of other ethnicities would suggest this. Essentially you do not just have a "preference" for white girls, but an outright fetish that has long ago stepped into complete obsession. It literally defines you on this forum, maybe in real life also. The self-hate argument is that why do you see white girls as so superior? And as I said above, not just a little better in a "preference" kind of way but in an absolutely excessive way. EDIT; Hope that explains why you self hate
Don't think you will listen though-self haters always gonna self-hate!It is a preference. I have never said anything or think bad about girls of other ethnicities. But I just like white girls.
Original post by Mr Smurf
It is a preference. I have never said anything or think bad about girls of other ethnicities. But I just like white girls.
I have explained in my above post how you have more than just a "preference". More than just "like". That you are so truly hell-bent on just white girls suggests you view them to be vastly superior (as said above).
But as for why this is the case, you have never said. Never in any of your posts I have seen. Why is it Mr. Smurf? What do white girls have that make them the sole recipients of your lust? Your long-lasting, eternal and of infinite magnitude lust? That no other ethnicities can offer you? (This question was also above)
(edited 11 years ago)
Original post by Mourinho<3
I have explained in my above post how you have more than just a "preference". More than just "like". That you are so truly hell-bent on just white girls suggests you view them to be vastly superior (as said above).
But as for why this is the case, you have never said. Never in any of your posts I have seen. Why is it Mr. Smurf? What do white girls have that make them the sole recipients of your lust? Your long-lasting, eternal and of infinite magnitude lust? That no other ethnicities can offer you? (This question was also above)
But as for why this is the case, you have never said. Never in any of your posts I have seen. Why is it Mr. Smurf? What do white girls have that make them the sole recipients of your lust? Your long-lasting, eternal and of infinite magnitude lust? That no other ethnicities can offer you? (This question was also above)
I like the physical features that white girls have.
Original post by Mr Smurf
I like the physical features that white girls have.
But what features do what girls have that no other race does? I like certain features. But they appear in other races, some more, but in most. I mean even for these features I prefer if someone is genuine, honest, trustworthy, open I would much prefer these. So why do you place such a preference on physical qualities rather than personality? Surely personality is more important, and harder to find in people?
Original post by odkfn
Are you thinking what I'm thinking?
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lool you killed me, the african one caught me by surprise
A lot more US women are in relationships with UK males than US males with UK women.
Original post by Future African game vet
my house mate is white, her boyfriend is chinese :P
but true, it does seem to be rare- she has a theory that chinese men are more feminine than western men, so western women are not as attracted, as our culture likes strong, butch men (in general), however shes quite manly so balances him out :P
but true, it does seem to be rare- she has a theory that chinese men are more feminine than western men, so western women are not as attracted, as our culture likes strong, butch men (in general), however shes quite manly so balances him out :P
I admit that chinese men look no as rough as western guys.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
Original post by Mourinho<3
But what features do what girls have that no other race does? I like certain features. But they appear in other races, some more, but in most. I mean even for these features I prefer if someone is genuine, honest, trustworthy, open I would much prefer these. So why do you place such a preference on physical qualities rather than personality? Surely personality is more important, and harder to find in people?
Different races have distinct features. Its why people have racial preferences. For example, if you don't like pale skin then you wont find white girls attractive. Same with black girls and dark skin. Looks matter whether you like it or not. No one is going to date someone they arent physically attracted to.
Original post by Londonburger
I admit that chinese men look no as rough as western guys.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
i can only hope she treats U just as well in return x
Never noticed any difference to be honest.
Original post by Mr Smurf
Different races have distinct features. Its why people have racial preferences. For example, if you don't like pale skin then you wont find white girls attractive. Same with black girls and dark skin. Looks matter whether you like it or not. No one is going to date someone they arent physically attracted to.
Ok, lets just say someone finds dark skin unattractive. That still leaves Chinese girls, Spanish, British etc the list goes on. So the question does still remain why the fixation? I take it your current approach isn't working for you so bear this in mind; a bright chap called Einstein once said...
"Insanity; Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results".
Make of that whatever you please.
Does it not make you feel bad that by posting over 17 pages! (run a search for posts by "Mr Smurf" and the words "white girl" saying "white girls don't like me
") of this stuff that you are actually embarrasing others of your own ethnicity? I guess not actually thinking about it. But maybe you should, I mean self-pitying drivel never portrayed anyone in a positive light.Original post by Mourinho<3
Ok, lets just say someone finds dark skin unattractive. That still leaves Chinese girls, Spanish, British etc the list goes on. So the question does still remain why the fixation? I take it your current approach isn't working for you so bear this in mind; a bright chap called Einstein once said...
"Insanity; Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results".
Make of that whatever you please.
Does it not make you feel bad that by posting over 17 pages! (run a search for posts by "Mr Smurf" and the words "white girl" saying "white girls don't like me") of this stuff that you are actually embarrasing others of your own ethnicity? I guess not actually thinking about it. But maybe you should, I mean self-pitying drivel never portrayed anyone in a positive light.
"Insanity; Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results".
Make of that whatever you please.
Does it not make you feel bad that by posting over 17 pages! (run a search for posts by "Mr Smurf" and the words "white girl" saying "white girls don't like me
") of this stuff that you are actually embarrasing others of your own ethnicity? I guess not actually thinking about it. But maybe you should, I mean self-pitying drivel never portrayed anyone in a positive light.Why are you so concerned with what type of girls I like? You are not going to change who I am attracted to.
Original post by Mr Smurf
Why are you so concerned with what type of girls I like? You are not going to change who I am attracted to.
No. Like whoever you want. I am concerned how you embarass ethnic minorities with your actions. People see you and think that many other Asians are individuals who whine how they can't get white girls and self-hate. They won't go to a gym or socialise in an attempt to get a girlfriend. They will just wallow in self-pity. Answer my question; doesn't it make you feel bad? It probably doesn't but it should.
People see Muslims on the street unemployed or protesting at British forces the WHOLE Muslim community suffers. A Chinese person is pathetic on a forum that can get many thousands of views for a single thread then all ethnic minorities may look like desparate weirdos.
Like whoever you want. But while you embarass others by continually being as you are I will be there to let you, and others know, that you are NOT representative of a community. You can look on here to see how people generalise.
So I am not telling you who to like. I am telling you that thousands read these threads so do ethnic minorities a favour and stop blaming your ethnicity for your troubles. Other Ethnic minorities, Chinese guys get by fine. I am Indian. I'm fine with white girls. My flatmate is Chinese. Ditto. Its not your ethnicity, like I said go to a gym and socialise like most people do to improve themselves and get a girlfriend.
I mean one person plays the race card unecessairly and other ethnic minorities get tarnished with the same brush.
EDIT; Read what so many have posted; they have Chinese boyfriends. But girls don't go for self-pitying, blame everyone but themselves guys on a whole I would guess.
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Original post by Mourinho<3
No. Like whoever you want. I am concerned how you embarass ethnic minorities with your actions. People see you and think that many other Asians are individuals who whine how they can't get white girls and self-hate. They won't go to a gym or socialise in an attempt to get a girlfriend. They will just wallow in self-pity. Answer my question; doesn't it make you feel bad? It probably doesn't but it should.
People see Muslims on the street unemployed or protesting at British forces the WHOLE Muslim community suffers. A Chinese person is pathetic on a forum that can get many thousands of views for a single thread then all ethnic minorities may look like desparate weirdos.
Like whoever you want. But while you embarass others by continually being as you are I will be there to let you, and others know, that you are NOT representative of a community. You can look on here to see how people generalise.
So I am not telling you who to like. I am telling you that thousands read these threads so do ethnic minorities a favour and stop blaming your ethnicity for your troubles. Other Ethnic minorities, Chinese guys get by fine. I am Indian. I'm fine with white girls. My flatmate is Chinese. Ditto. Its not your ethnicity, like I said go to a gym and socialise like most people do to improve themselves and get a girlfriend.
I mean one person plays the race card unecessairly and other ethnic minorities get tarnished with the same brush.
EDIT; Read what so many have posted; they have Chinese boyfriends. But girls don't go for self-pitying, blame everyone but themselves guys on a whole I would guess.
People see Muslims on the street unemployed or protesting at British forces the WHOLE Muslim community suffers. A Chinese person is pathetic on a forum that can get many thousands of views for a single thread then all ethnic minorities may look like desparate weirdos.
Like whoever you want. But while you embarass others by continually being as you are I will be there to let you, and others know, that you are NOT representative of a community. You can look on here to see how people generalise.
So I am not telling you who to like. I am telling you that thousands read these threads so do ethnic minorities a favour and stop blaming your ethnicity for your troubles. Other Ethnic minorities, Chinese guys get by fine. I am Indian. I'm fine with white girls. My flatmate is Chinese. Ditto. Its not your ethnicity, like I said go to a gym and socialise like most people do to improve themselves and get a girlfriend.
I mean one person plays the race card unecessairly and other ethnic minorities get tarnished with the same brush.
EDIT; Read what so many have posted; they have Chinese boyfriends. But girls don't go for self-pitying, blame everyone but themselves guys on a whole I would guess.
Don't bother getting worked up over him mate, he really is not worth your time. I've tried talking to him before myself. People who would form a bad opinion of Chinese guys from his posts would probably do so even if he didn't exist. I feel sorry for him but I don't feel embarrassed or anything because I know I certainly am nothing like him, nor like any of the stereotypes of Chinese men that are being continuously perpetuated, and I'm sure you aren't either. Although I can't grow facial hair so there's probably some truth in that one
You could say that young black males are at an immediate disadvantage in finding employment due to society's general picture of them, but they've got to just carry on regardless haven't they. Instead of sit around complaining that no one will employ them. Anyway I think he's in London and I'm in London for uni atm so If I see an Oriental guy drooling at the heels of some random white girls I'll make sure to slap some sense into him for you!
Unless of course he's more of a physical presence than me, In which case I shall have some strong words for him...
Original post by Londonburger
I admit that chinese men look no as rough as western guys.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
Well my grandad was nothing like this, and my dad defo isn't like this! I'm not saying this a good thing but I'm just saying that I think this "culture" thing gets played up too much.
Original post by Londonburger
I admit that chinese men look no as rough as western guys.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
But we have different concept of man in chinese culture. A Chinese man is going to take every responsibility for his gf in a relationship:
he will look after her, mind her every important detail that she could forget;
he will help her on maths, programming, physics etc, or he will accompany her over night for revision.
he will cook her after cuddling all the night;
he will feed her medicine when she is in period
---------
his shoulder is always around her, although the shoulder might be not as wide as white guys'.
he will not only love his girl, but also love his girl's parents and family.
he will never come back home late, as he knows his girl will worry about him.
he bears the girl's size in mind all the time - he always buys nice clothes for his girl every time when he has a business trip to other cities.
----------
These are what my dad has been doing over 20 years. My mum rarely cook, rarely wash clothes. I grew up in this environment and was taught that girls should be spoiled.
I have been dreamed to be a real man like this, I don't care the height and the muscle - they will be taken away by time.
Well you say that..but there is a tendency for genocide in China towards baby girls, what with the one-baby policy.
http://academic.brooklyn.cuny.edu/core9/phalsall/texts/c-wnhol.html
Another article states:
"China are said to eliminate more female infants than the number of girls born in the US each year."
So yes, Chinese men may treat women better if they live long enough to enter courtship.
Original post by Mr Smurf
Why are you so concerned with what type of girls I like? You are not going to change who I am attracted to.
yes there are attractive girls of all races but on average, white girls are more attractive than any other girls.
you just have to accept that they dont like you. that is the harsh reality of it. i know you dont want to accept it but you will have to. tough luck mate.
Original post by MrFlash1994
Don't bother getting worked up over him mate, he really is not worth your time. I've tried talking to him before myself. People who would form a bad opinion of Chinese guys from his posts would probably do so even if he didn't exist. I feel sorry for him but I don't feel embarrassed or anything because I know I certainly am nothing like him, nor like any of the stereotypes of Chinese men that are being continuously perpetuated, and I'm sure you aren't either. Although I can't grow facial hair so there's probably some truth in that one You could say that young black males are at an immediate disadvantage in finding employment due to society's general picture of them, but they've got to just carry on regardless haven't they. Instead of sit around complaining that no one will employ them.
Anyway I think he's in London and I'm in London for uni atm so If I see an Oriental guy drooling at the heels of some random white girls I'll make sure to slap some sense into him for you!
Unless of course he's more of a physical presence than me, In which case I shall have some strong words for him...
You could say that young black males are at an immediate disadvantage in finding employment due to society's general picture of them, but they've got to just carry on regardless haven't they. Instead of sit around complaining that no one will employ them. Anyway I think he's in London and I'm in London for uni atm so If I see an Oriental guy drooling at the heels of some random white girls I'll make sure to slap some sense into him for you!
Unless of course he's more of a physical presence than me, In which case I shall have some strong words for him...
I'm not woked up by him. I only think about it when I am posting. After that I sleep easy. This forum is read by many thousands, especially regarding controversial topics like this so I feel it is important that people know that not all are like him. In this thread, in others, he gets proven to have no leg to stand on but continues to be an embarassment. He may not care but I do. So while I go on happily in my day in the knowledge I have done what I set out to he is still crying on TSR, hoping some white girl will give him a sympathy shag
Original post by Mourinho<3
I'm not woked up by him. I only think about it when I am posting. After that I sleep easy. This forum is read by many thousands, especially regarding controversial topics like this so I feel it is important that people know that not all are like him. In this thread, in others, he gets proven to have no leg to stand on but continues to be an embarassment. He may not care but I do. So while I go on happily in my day in the knowledge I have done what I set out to he is still crying on TSR, hoping some white girl will give him a sympathy shag
I agree it's important that people realise that, but it really doesn't matter that much in my opinion. I mean I don't really care what people on the internet think of us, because it's how you present yourself in person that counts. Tbh I don't know why he just doesn't visit a prostitute like so many other lonely men out there, instead of believing he's entitled to a shag off someone!
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