Hey man , I know what you are going through because I have suffered with this my whole life as well, never got diagnosed with it and I always had energy and I was normal as a boy just with wide hips and skinny , at 12 I developed gyno while I was chunky and thought it would go away if I lost weight , only ate 3 light meals a day and it got rid of the chub but the boobs , tho a lot smaller where still there . They stayed with me even after I hit puberty and shot up from 15 through 17 to abiotic 6 foot where I ended up at . I’m now almost 19 years old out of school and they are still here and I still have wide hips, it’s upsetting because I am active and have committed to the gym and it’s always been hard for me to build mass as I am skinny but also hard for me to get lean because of how my body holds on to the little fat it keeps . So I never really had a good shape for a guy verve when working out hard and eating clean and all . I feel like I’m stuck this way and want a test for XXY syndrome as well like you , good luck. Man and I hope hearing my story helps you feel less alone because I know I felt alone , have a great day