As the parent of a privately educated daughter, I feel that I am justified in replying to your 'rant'. Her first few years of education were spent at a local and popular, state infant school, sadly she became one of several victims to three girls who, even at such a young age, were vicious both mentally and physically and were already well rehearsed in the etiquette of gang culture as we have come to know it. Not coming from a 'give as good as you get' background, I went to inform the Head of the problem expecting her to act accordingly. The unbelievable response that I got from her was to be told that "They're all girls, girls can be little bitches and it's also a hot summer and that doesn't help, forget about it and it will blow over before they return after the holidays." Needless to say, it didn't blow over. Also when I requested her teacher at that time, to pick up on any poor grammar such as the use of the word 'ain't, or replacing th sounds in words with f instead, all the things I recall be constantly reminded of as a child, I was told that it was local vernacular! I also recall having to remind several members of the staff that please and thank you should be taught by example.
All in all, not a good start to school for my daughter.
Although the school I write of has a strong academic record, it taught nothing of the rest of the skills needed for life and living within it. As a director of my own company, I know the value of those 'other' skills, good manners, self respect and the consideration of others and wouldn't dream of employing a person without them, no matter how educated.
It was purely to address the lack of life skills that I sent my daughter to a private school where, thanks to their excellent pastoral care, she has grown into lovely young woman (and I am so proud of her).
A final few words and I promise to finish. I'd just like to say that the company I own and which employs a number of staff, was built up by sheer hard work and determination as I received very little academic education at all.