The pivot isn't the centre of mass. The pivot is the man still holding it. The weight acts from the centre of mass, which, assuming the pole is uniform, lies in the middle.. which is 0.4m from the pivot.
Edit: Re-reading what you've posted, this is pretty much what they are telling you. I'm sorry, I'm not sure how to make it any clearer!
Edit2: Actually, draw a diagram if you haven't already.