Should men have the right to "abort" their unborn child?

Bring your own condoms and choose another orifice if it is a concern.

if women want equality so bad then yes. Men should have the right to abort the unborn child

oh my ****ing word mate
that's like saying if somebody burgles your home you'd be saying "you shouldn't have lived so near to a criminal"

Classic victim blaming. It's fine if you do it to men though

Being a father doesn't compare to the bond a child has with their mother…

We get to make the choice before sex after that it's a negotiation. Being a father doesn't compare to the bond a child has with their mother…

Any other case is not comparable because 99% of men are physically incapable of becoming pregnant or having an abortion.

No, if think you are old enough to have sex, then you are old enough to take some financial responsibility for any resulting progeny.

We get to make the choice before sex after that it's a negotiation. Being a father doesn't compare to the bond a child has with their mother…

oh my ****ing word mate
that's like saying if somebody burgles your home you'd be saying "you shouldn't have lived so near to a criminal"
or if you get shot at in a school shooting, you'd be saying "shouldn't have been to school that day, should have seen this coming"

We get to make the choice before sex after that it's a negotiation. Being a father doesn't compare to the bond a child has with their mother…

Just out of interest, do you understand the amount of people you cause immediately to disregard everything you've said when you imply that some men are physically capable of becoming pregnant?

Do you realise that and press on anyway, or do you think that is generally regarded as a reasonable statement?

really? what do you mean? that's kind of pigeonholing all women as the more important parents, isn't it? either that's really sexist or just very shallow minded. what if the child was a male and needed guidance from a fatherly figure? what if the mother was an awful person? in fact, studies have shown that mothers hit their children more than fathers do, and are more likely to be pedophiles.

No, the more accurate comparison would be:

You invite someone who you aren't sure about/don't know that well, to come and look round your house and then they take some of your stuff as they weren't to be trusted. Then he'd be saying "Well you did invite that strange person in your house"

or

You see someone at school with a gun and think this is probably fine I imagine the safety is on and no one would shoot a gun at school and follow them into the room. Then he'd be saying "You should have left when you saw the gun"

The point is largely that you know there is the risk of something occurring and still enter the scenario yourself. It doesn't excuse what the other person did, but, you did knowingly enter that situation of risk.

I don't think people are really thinking very hard when they are advocating "for equality" by saying that men should have a right to say whether there should be an abortion or not.

What if the woman says that she doesn't want to abort but the man does? What happens now? Well this is what I think will happen:

No matter what the man says, the decision is up to the woman if she wants to undergo the abortion as, after all, the feotus is part of her and the procedure affects the woman physically. No woman should be forced to undergo the procedure.

But what about the man? Should he pay for the costs? I think this should be resolved in a case by case basis by court. Things like" whether the man was careless and did not bother using contraceptives" should be explored in the court case.

However one would wonder if this can do more harm than good if the man breaks up with the single mother as she would be left if essentially no source of income (if the court decided that the man didn't have to pay for child support).