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    Sooo just wondered if any of you guys thought it was wierd that I suggested to my bf that we go to a strip club and get a joint lapdance together? He was pretty suprised, and I am not bi at all but can aprieciate a good body and entertainment.

    When I told my friends they all said that they wouldnt even let their bf's go to a strip club let alone join them for a lapdance. I think its a jealousy thing? At the end of the day I told them that its only to look at, and I know nothing will happen, just like porn really.

    Anyway, just wondered if you girls would do the same? or what your views on this are?
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    nah me n my bf go strip clubs a lot, joint lap dance sounds hawt!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sooo just wondered if any of you guys thought it was wierd that I suggested to my bf that we go to a strip club and get a joint lapdance together? He was pretty suprised, and I am not bi at all but can aprieciate a good body and entertainment.

    When I told my friends they all said that they wouldnt even let their bf's go to a strip club let alone join them for a lapdance. I think its a jealousy thing? At the end of the day I told them that its only to look at, and I know nothing will happen, just like porn really.

    Anyway, just wondered if you girls would do the same? or what your views on this are?
    Learn to lap dance/pole dance yourself and he wont be going to those places, even if you insist.
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    I'd find it awkward, but I find everything awkward.
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    (Original post by Tyrannosaurus Cal)
    I'd find it awkward, but I find everything awkward.
    :love:

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    (Original post by ithoughtofthis)
    :love:

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    That was so awkward
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sooo just wondered if any of you guys thought it was wierd that I suggested to my bf that we go to a strip club and get a joint lapdance together? He was pretty suprised, and I am not bi at all but can aprieciate a good body and entertainment.

    When I told my friends they all said that they wouldnt even let their bf's go to a strip club let alone join them for a lapdance. I think its a jealousy thing? At the end of the day I told them that its only to look at, and I know nothing will happen, just like porn really.

    Anyway, just wondered if you girls would do the same? or what your views on this are?
    Done it once. Was seriously hot because my gf got into it more than I expected.

    The sex afterwards was amazing. She now uses a repeat visit to the club as a motivator for me to do things like go wine tasting with her. Which I will obviously do
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    TBF it just made me want my bf more, i think next time il give him a lapdance too, except hes alowed to touch:P
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    Nothing wrong with doing it, it can be a good way to liven things up really as well as looking at some good looking girls
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    I wouldn't do it, but each to their own.
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    i suggested this to my bf but he said he didnt like that kinda thing which i thought was really weird
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    I am a stripper and I do dances for couples all the time. There's nothing odd about it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Sooo just wondered if any of you guys thought it was wierd that I suggested to my bf that we go to a strip club and get a joint lapdance together? He was pretty suprised, and I am not bi at all but can aprieciate a good body and entertainment.

    When I told my friends they all said that they wouldnt even let their bf's go to a strip club let alone join them for a lapdance. I think its a jealousy thing? At the end of the day I told them that its only to look at, and I know nothing will happen, just like porn really.

    Anyway, just wondered if you girls would do the same? or what your views on this are?
    Can I just say that you sound like an absolute LEGEND of a girlfriend: you seem to really understand guys for who we are.
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    (Original post by ambermhammond)
    i suggested this to my bf but he said he didnt like that kinda thing which i thought was really weird
    If my girlfriend asked me something like that I'd be inclined to say the same as your BF did.

    It's hard to tell what girl's reactions are going to be sometimes, even to questions they ask us.
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    I would've thought it'd be better to go along than him to go alone, so can't see why your friends object to you going together. I wouldn't care if he went with mates either though.
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    (Original post by C_B_C)
    If my girlfriend asked me something like that I'd be inclined to say the same as your BF did.

    It's hard to tell what girl's reactions are going to be sometimes, even to questions they ask us.
    Yeah i see what you mean i guess you wouldn't want her going off on one or something or feeling jelous or upset later perhaps
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    (Original post by C_B_C)
    you seem to really understand guys for who we are.
    HAHA, you're not making us sound too great!
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    Sounds like the kind of thing my friend would do XD
    If you want to do it and are fine with it, just do it. Not everyone's relationship is the same, so using others' to judge your own isn't always reliable.
 
 
 
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