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Original post by Redfrost
or don't want to get pregnant


Or when one person in the relationship has an incurable STI (e.g. HIV) and doesn't want to pass it on to their partner.
Original post by Redfrost
or don't want to get pregnant


Hence the 'uncommited'
Original post by ForeverHopefully
Hence the 'uncommited'


You can be in a committed relationship and not want to get pregnant. Some people never want children, some are not ready for children, some have had children and don't want any more, some would put their health at risk if they got pregnant, some have genetic diseases they don't want children to inherit. There are plenty of reasons a person might be in a committed relationship and not want a child now/ever.

And before you mention other types of birth control - these are not always appropriate.
Sex is great. Humans should have sex as much as possible.
Original post by SmallTownGirl
Or when one person in the relationship has an incurable STI (e.g. HIV) and doesn't want to pass it on to their partner.


Hence the "insecure"
I've never heard of anyone sleeping with someone that they know has a disease/infection.
Original post by ForeverHopefully
Hence the "insecure"
I've never heard of anyone sleeping with someone that they know has a disease/infection.


Just because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean it doesn't/shouldn't happen.
Original post by SmallTownGirl
Just because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean it doesn't/shouldn't happen.


So you're telling me there are humans who willing have sexual intercourse with someone, whom they know have an std without any use of contraceptive?
Original post by ForeverHopefully
So you're telling me there are humans who willing have sexual intercourse with someone, whom they know have an std without any use of contraceptive?


We were talking about why people would use a condom.

Plus the word you want is 'protection'. Most contraceptivesdon't prevent the spread of STIs.
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Original post by Liquid Harvest
As far as I'm concerned, ALL extramarital relations are, by definition, open. If you don't want to be cheated on, then get married. Otherwise, there are no rules to say who you can and can't have sex with. Again, unless you are married. It's the norm, everyone does it. It just surprises me how shocked and upset people get over it. And if the girl or man doesn't like it - break up! That's the beauty of relationships, unlike marriage, they're so fluid and dynamic, there are no commitments or rules, no boundaries or requirements. Anything goes.
And my ex girlfriend did exactly that, she was having sex with half a dozen other men. Was I shocked or surprised? Absolutely not (was a little annoyed that she kept denying it after getting caught red handed lol). Because I did the same thing as well and will continue to do the same in any future relationship. It's really not a big deal. People always have the option to break up if they don't like it. There's no way I'm going to stay loyal to just one woman, unless she was Kate Beckinsale when she was in her 20s lol.

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So much BS.
lol

Hate the fact boys are socialised to be so delicate and sensitive to girls, and put them on this pedestal of moral authority. They are not angels, and most of them will take advantage of your kindness.

They will say "real men treat women with respect" or "real men put their women above all else", but then they end up going for the guys who do exactly the opposite of what they say. They want guys who do and say whatever the hell they want, when they want, not some simpering puppy that treats them like a goddess for having a vagina.
Original post by Crossedit
lol

Hate the fact boys are socialised to be so delicate and sensitive to girls, and put them on this pedestal of moral authority. They are not angels, and most of them will take advantage of your kindness.

They will say "real men treat women with respect" or "real men put their women above all else", but then they end up going for the guys who do exactly the opposite of what they say. They want guys who do and say whatever the hell they want, when they want, not some simpering puppy that treats them like a goddess for having a vagina.


How is not cheating on a partner putting them on a moral authority pedestal, don't get it.

I know plenty of men who have cheated on women who are so delicate to his needs and who run around for him. It's not about gender it's about the person.
Original post by Liquid Harvest
Why are you trying to avoid becoming a womaniser? It's a good thing, you should embrace it. Become like Charlie Harper. Your brother isn't doing anything wrong or bad. It's not considered cheating if you're not married, just because you have a girlfriend doesn't mean you can't have sex with other women. If she doesn't like it or accept it then break up, very simple. You can still treat them well at the same time, it's fine.


Aren't you the same guy who gets upset over women showing skin?

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