Gosh, having read through this thread, I feel I should probs rush to the defence of myself and my colleagues who work for one of these mock interview service providers
(To provide a bit of context: I went to a bog-standard, somewhat dodgy comprehensive school which was under Oxford's access scheme, which was at that time run by Oxford students, providing personal statement help and interview preparation sessions for free!
My school signed us Oxbridge hopefuls all up to one of the more extortionate Oxbridge interviewing service providers and we were all asked to pay some of the amount, whilst the school would pay the rest. I missed the deadline for replying and so wasn't allowed to go. I was the only person who didn't go for the paying services and conversely, the only one who went to the free Oxford Uni access stuff. I was the only person to get into Oxbridge from my school in a four-year period. Make of that what you will
I missed my grades for Oxford but got in anyway, and spent my three years doing a lot of different access initiatives to give other people the same chance of help that I had been provided with when I was applying.)
OK, so now that I've explained the context and given I went to a bog-standard comp and given I am a militant comp-educated leftie with a huge chip on my shoulder about the schooling I had, what on EARTH am I doing working for one of these firms?!?!
1) The company I work for is a social philanthropic one. What does that mean in practice? It means the private school "clients" (be it an entire private school's Year 13 cohort, or someone from a private school applying for interview practice as an individual, apart from their school cohort) pay an exortionate amount for interview prep/practice, enabling state school students to get FREE interview prep/practice. I do not get any "blood money" or "fee": my "earnings" from these interviews go to a charity of my choice
Last year I raised just over £2000 for a Saturday school centre that teaches music to refugee children
Now, being a militant comp-educated leftie, do I
really care if the private school applicants are paying extortionate amounts for my services? Sounds harsh but no I do not. If you/your parents/your school are stupid enough to think that interview prep/practice with me makes a SIGNIFICANT difference to your Oxbridge chances (I like to think I make a small difference at the very least
), that is not really my problem and there is not much I can do about that
However, if your stupidity permits someone from a state school to get some interview prep/practice with me (bearing in mind that said state school may not have any teachers from the Oxbridge system, or have much experience in Oxbridge interviews), will I take your money and run away with it? Of course
I love the Robin Hood-nature of my company
Each year, more and more state school students are getting free interview prep/practice and last year a huge milestone was achieved, in that two people attended the extortionate summer school for free
2) All the above said about private schools aside for a moment: it's worth noting that private schools can be just as bad as state schools in preparing their candidates for Oxbridge interviews, but in a very different way. Every year I come across people who definitely have Oxbridge potential but whose school have run them down into the ground in various ways (usually by repeatedly insisting that said person is not good enough for Oxbridge. To said person's face
). It is very sad to see people's lack of confito hear people say things like "my school says I'm not good enough/that I'll never get in". I feel it's worth mentioning this because some of the more militant state-schooled among us (me included) often grow up thinking that private school students have it easy/in the bag/have all the support in the world.
If I can help boost someone's overall self-esteem with one half hour interview and 20 mins feedback, I think that's not necessarily a bad thing.
3) Completely separate from confidence issues, the worst candidate I have seen (and I've been with my company a long time. Longer than it's manager, mwahaha) was from a very good, monied West London private school. I was completely aghast at how bad she was
There is no chance in hell that she would ever get a place at Oxbridge (I, sadly, wasn't allowed to tell her that). So does giving a private school student REALLY give them a leg up? I would argue no. If someone is not going to get in anyway, no amount of interview prep from me makes a real difference. Equally if someone is really good, my giving them a half hour interview is not gonna change that at all either or increase their chances any further.
4) Finally, my personal reason for joining this company and working for it for five years thus far (and I have NO intention of stopping any time soon)? It's no secret I had a bad time at Oxford
If I can use my three years there for some kinda greater good, then that makes me feel my hellish time there wasn't in vain
TL/DR: Us people who work for these companies aren't complete monsters, and interview prep has less impact on getting in that it may seem