I'm the opposite, I prefer to get dressed, if only casually (my definition of casual is still deemed fashionable to most, given my wardrobe), even if I'm not going anywhere. I even have sportswear that I specifically use when I go out to jog, only to change immediately after. When I was back home with my family, I was a lot more relaxed and would quite happily stay in my pyjamas all day, regarding my mother would allow it, but ever since I've moved to the UK, I've formed a habit of always getting suitably dressed. I can only suppose that it's a habit I've developed from living with people I've never been "that" close with. For example, I have no intention to leave the flat today, but there's a chance I might need to, for whatever reason, so I like to be properly dressed. But yeah, jogging has made a huge difference, not only physically, but also mentally. I feel a lot better in myself. I have a few weights at home too... I'm not like my husband, who is a gym fanatic, but it's enough to keep fit and toned.
I've often wondered what living on an island must be like. The closest thing I've had was my hometown of Uji, which is still pretty big, given it's an ideal place for commuters to Kyoto. I bet it's very community led and that you know everyone of your own age? Or at the very least, should you venture into the center, you'll probably encounter somebody you know? I've never had that.
- As for feeling scared of living in a big city, that's understandable. It's a lot safer than you think, though, regarding you're sensible and don't do anything that'll make you stand out in the wrong way.