I'm a weirdo...
And I am wondering if anyone else is one too.
Is anyone hoping to NOT hear back from unis too soon after interview? I have two interviews next week - one on Wednesday and one on Thursday, so if they both let me know quite soon afterwards then making a decision won't be too difficult (if I am offered a place at both - wishful thinking... and it would still be better if I'd had an interview at all three of my choices).
Originally I only had one interview next week and I was dreading getting a decision before I had been to my other choices as I think we only get 10 days or 14 days or something to respond to any decisions? Something like that? I was nervous that I might have one interview, get a quick decision and then not have time to go to my other choices for interviews before I had to let the first provider know!
Now I have two interviews within two days, I am not as worried about it.
But I hated the idea of having to accept or reject a choice without having any idea whether I was going to get an interview - let alone an offer - from my other choices. I just imagined me saying "YES!" to the first place that (hopefully) gave me an offer, then getting other offers later and thinking "woops" - or the other scenario, rejecting an offer hoping the other two will pull it out of the bag only to not even get an interview/get rejected.
So on that basis...... I'd actually prefer to get the opportunity to hopefully have three interviews and then see who offers me what, if anything, and then be able to make a choice out of all my offers (assuming I get any).
Maybe it is me being weird but I don't have a preference as of yet to any provider in particular. I don't have a hierarchy in my head like this is the one I want to go to, this is second best, this is third best etc. I've not thought about it, I just applied and put all my effort in to that. So I really want the chance to visit all my choices and then be able to make an informed decision should I receive offers... rather than get a quick ass decision and have to rush in to making a decision that I might possibly regret
So providers, if you're reading - don't assume all of us want super quick decisions... some of us actually don't have a frigging clue where we want to go because we spent so much time on our personal statement/application... and we'd appreciate having the chance to check as many choices of ours out as possible. Thank you in advance
This is all of course very presumptuous/positive thinking. It could be that we receive no offers/don't get interviews etc. and so the decision will never come down to us. Just that, if it
does come down to us, it'd be nice to be able to compare our choices and make an informed decision. Rather than desperately replying YES TAKE ME to the first one that possibly gives us something.
As long as I hear back by the end of January/start of February (near the beginning of Feb is when my 40 days are up) then that's fine by me.