I'm just posting on here because i feel ill with the stress and worry of all of this, and i cannot talk to anyone in person about this. Basically, when i started university 2 years ago, i had what i told my friends that was a drunken one night stand. however the more i remember the incident, the more i realise it wasn't consensual- i was taken advantage of/bullied into having unprotected sex and made to do things i didnt agree to. since then i've struggled with an eating disorder and self harm and im realising i was using these to stop myself from thinking about it. i'm tormented by the prospect that i might have hiv from this incident, its all i ever think about. im trying to get over the eating disorder and have been doing really well but whenever i think about this i go back. i dont think i could cope to find out if i have hiv from this, i honestly think i would kill myself. basically, how do i prepare myself to go for the hiv test? i know i need to find out but im too scared. i think i was trying to pretend it never happened and made jokes about having a "one night stand" with my friends even though the thought of it made me feel absolutely sick.
please don't post any horrible comments because i just feel awful at the moment.