I'm 16, he's 36.. AMA!

I play a dance game called ITG in arcades. I met him through going to these places - similar interests and all c: if you want mooore detail please ask!

It's gross either way imo....it's not like you suddenly mentally blossom when you turn 18

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Define hate? I mean, some people don't agree but then they see us together, they get to know us both properly, and they understand why we're pretty much perfect for eachother:P



But it's not a year ago c:

Gross? How so? I personally don't believe you can make an informed decision on whether or not it's gross without knowing both parties personally.

It got deleted the first time.



Personal opinion, I suppose?



Not at all. I am very confident in our relationship, especially considering everything we've been through to actually be together. Even if we do break up, I'm not a bitter person, I'd try to keep the friendship going at the very least.



Define hate? I mean, some people don't agree but then they see us together, they get to know us both properly, and they understand why we're pretty much perfect for eachother:P



But it's not a year ago c:

Who approached who? If it was your boyfriend, did you find him speaking to you a bit creepy? Did you ever see yourself dating him?

Like looks on the street etc? How do you deal with it?

Gross? How so? I personally don't believe you can make an informed decision on whether or not it's gross without knowing both parties personally.

I know you'll probably ignore this but you're young and have your whole life ahead of you. Judging from your avatar, you are a pretty girl and certainly aren't going to run out of guys to date. if he makes you happy that's great, but as a long term thing you should think clearly about this. Would you be okay with being 30 when he's 50..? Would you want your children (if you have any) have an old aged dad that cant play football with them?

And I personally don't believe people his age should be looking for or even entertaining notions of being involved with people your age, to me it speaks volumes about the type of guy he is. But we're all entitled to our opinions

I approached him! I pretty much demanded he taught me to be as good at him at the game! I had a bit of a crush on him from the moment I saw him!



I've actually had people come up to me saying how cute and happy we look together! People do get shocked when we tell them our ages, but they usually go on to say that they're surprised at how alike we are considering the age gap. If I do get any negativity, I tend to just ignore it. It's rare and usually from people who don't know us.

Would you complain if it was a 40 year old dating a 60 year old? Most people wouldn't, but it's the same thing.

I'm actually not going to rail on the age gap because I think people are too hung up on it.

My question however is what the aim of this relationship is for you? While I've no issue with your relationship per say, its highly unlikely he's staying with you to marry you.

You seem really happy so I hope everything goes well with you guys

Ignorance is bliss.

Does it not kind of bother you that he must like much younger girls that are almost children? I feel like that would bother me