My boyfriend is useless

Sorry but to be honest if you’re not happy you need to speak to boyfriend and ask him to help out more around the house etc. if he doesn’t listen and carries on I would leave as he’s not respecting you or listening to how you feel

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What about this is trolling? I'm sure this is a platform where I should be able to comfortably seek advice when I need it? Or maybe you're on the wrong platform? Either way if you don't have any advice to give please log out

Well you're clearly not comfortable as you've posted as anon.

Advise?

Just wait it out until the dog dies then leave him. Only another 10 years or so, then you can move on with your life.

So my bf of 3 years is useless. He doesn't cook, doesn't clean, rarely does anything. If I'm feeling ill I literally have to beg him to feed our dog when I can't do it myself.

Now I know some of you will say why are you still with this man but we have a dog and my bf has threatened me repeatedly that if we break up he doesn't want to see me therefore I won't be able to see our dog.

Sadly I can't take our dog myself as I live in student accommodation.

So for those who know they should leave their useless partner but don't for whatever reason e.g. children, financial stability... how do you deal with a useless partner?

Is he goodlooking though

Is that really important?

Is he goodlooking though

What's he gonna do withholding the dog from you when you supposedly have to beg him to feed it?

Well, I guess you have assumed a submissive position and will need to start making demands from him and stop begging for things to get done!

Get a family member to take the dog and break up.

If I demand anything from him he just turns it into an argument. It doesn't help he's 21 and I'm 36 so already he thinks he has that power over me. Today I asked what we was going to cook us (I was trying to see if he'll finally cook) and he said don't demand anything from me. If you want something to eat cook it yourself because I won't be doing it. But whenever I cook myself something and not him he'll cause an argument and ruin the whole day.


Wow after typing my reply I don't even think staying for my dog is worth it. I love my dog but wow I cannot stay with him any much longer