I got my a levels a few days ago and got my place at Durham, but but I’ve been allocated a really modern, informal college. I would have preferred a more traditional one but I’m not that bothered I’m just happy to have a place at all, but my parents really want me to go to a different college, they’re worried I’ll miss out on the gowned formal dinners and all that kind of stuff which to be honest, I am kind of annoyed we don’t do, but I know it’s not the end of the world. They’re also convinced that all people do there is party because they’ve seen a few videos of parties at the college online, I know it’s stupid but basically they want me to see if I can change somehow because they think the college doesn’t really fit my personality but I don’t want to seem rude or ungrateful because I really am happy to have the place, so I was just wondering if anyone knows if changing colleges is possible and if it happens quite regularly or if it’s really rare and for special circumstances? Thanks!