Hiya
It's lovely to know you're considering applying to Durham, and English lit is a great choice!
Colleges will basically be your first family when you come to Durham- that's where you live, meet people, make friends, eat with them and engage in events that the JCR holds. College events include everything from society events to events held in the college bar during fresher's week, pub quizzes, college day, formals, sports, and so much more. You also get a two-tier level of support as colleges have their own welfare teams you can approach for financial or mental health support. There are also central university professional services like counselling, finance, disability support, international office, etc.
Here is our Student Hub where you can find blogs about different colleges:
https://studentblog.webspace.durham.ac.uk/?s=college+life.
Also check out our Tiktok for some cool student-produced content:
https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurhamstudentAs for work/life balance, it can get quite difficult if you don't manage your time well. I have about 8-9 contact hours per week which isn't a lot. But I was burning out a lot at the beginning of 2nd year because I had two part-time jobs, started learning a new language, was working on assignments, did weightlifting and also was the publicity officer for Disney Society. It got extremely difficult to manage these all at the same time but as I started allocating time to specific tasks, it became much more manageable. I still do all these things now but it's now a part of my routine and doesn't feel very difficult except during formative season in November.
I wouldn't say it gets unbearably cold but temperatures in winter have previously gone to -2 degree celsius. Usually it revolves around 1-9 degrees in the winter. Summers can be quite fickle also as last time it went up to 34 degrees but this time, 27-28 was the maximum. I would suggest you bring a few fleece or warm jackets/hoodies/coats for the winter.
Hope that helps
-Himieka