hi, i have a lot on my chest now i need to get out. i have a lovely family and boyfriend and i am a very high achiever and i should be happy, but at the moment, i can’t?
everything has just been going wrong. one of my closest school friends overdosed and my life feels so empty. though my mental health is worsening, my parents took me off antidepressants, and then found out about my self-medicating, which they threatened to kick me out for, and made me quit my job. ive relapsed with my anorexia, which sucks as it’s ruining my family relationships and means i may lose £4,000 i spent to go on a hiking expedition. coronavirus outbreaks in italy also meant i couldn’t go on a school trip i’ve been looking forward to for a year, so again i lost £900. i feel unloveable and only good for sex, so constantly feel like i should break up with my boyfriend to save myself the pain later on. he also doesn’t want me to drink, which is a big coping mechanism for me. i don’t think i have real friends, and i can’t sleep because i won’t stop thinking. i don’t know what i want to be in the future and im worried im not going to be strong enough to go to uni, which is my dream. it’s been suggested i am put into care, but that stresses me out as i want to achieve in school.
all in all, im just not happy i guess. it’s just like every day has consistently got worse. any, idk, advice? people in similar situations?