I've been feeling pretty **** for over a year now. Last year I turned 25, and thought "oh ****, am I doing everything I should be doing?"
I first got into the uni life a little later than everyone else, at 21, and went to Uni for a year to complete my degree, and went clubbing and stuff (it was a pretty *****y club, but still) I worked as a club photographer for a really brief period. But my passion was always blues music at the time, so I fell in with a much older crowd. I know we're still in lockdown atm, but my younger sister has already done so much more than me. (She goes to raves, free parties with her bf).
In short, I want to go raving because I've never done it, but I feel like I'm too old (I'm 26). It's kind of more of a bucket list thing than anything else. But I've watched promo vids of upcoming events, and just think "Nah. These things are full of kids". I already got told off by a 20 year-old girl last year when I was 25 for hitting on her at a club.
Basically, just to add, my mum died when I had just turned 23, and I kind of shut down and got into the drink and drugs. I've been struggling with my mental health for some time, and don't know what I want to do. I just want to go into my 30s feeling "fulfilled", but I'm worried that I've pissed the "wild" years of my life down the drain, and worry that I'd feel embarrassed in a nightclub or rave full of much younger people. I haven't had that many sexual experiences in my life. Most of my "friends" from school are getting married also, which doesn't help my self-esteem.