Hey
@searobin,
Disappearing for a year or two to do your own thing is probably one of the best times you will give yourself. Use the advantage of being young and free to travel, world and get some real-world life experiences under your belt and out of your system before going to uni. The memories you make of travelling, working and volunteering are unforgettable and it's a chance to make lifelong friends because you're travelling. Also, because you don't have a lot of responsibilities at that point either. Make the most of what you have now because uni will always be there. Even if you lose your place you can reapply, but you won't always have the time to travel and work. Ultimately, everyone is living their own lives after school finishes and the feeling of being left behind is temporary when you realise everyone's a little lost trying to find their own way. What's important is that you do what works for you.
Also, another advantage of travelling and working and then going to uni is that you'll have things a bit more "put together". By that I mean you'll have your priorities a bit more in order, you know what you want and you're getting on with things that are coming your way because you've had your fun. You learn to better adapt to situations and become more flexible when you need to be. So, it doesn't matter if you're a bit older than your freshers, it may be the freshers are envious of your travels ask you about your experiences!
Even if you choose to time off after uni, you're not going to be behind everyone else and feeling the rush to settle with employment and find connections. There will be jobs wherever you go. Perhaps you decide to emigrate and find a graduate position there. Either way, things will work out eventually. If you find that after finishing your degree, it's not an area you want to go into, then going travelling and working is better for you.
I took a gap year prior to uni and thoroughly enjoyed myself. I even changed my course during my gap year too! I was a lot more laid back at uni, was more independent and got on with doing my own thing than following the crowd. I now have more of a mindset of wanting to work after I finish uni than go travelling and working because I did all that before I went to uni.
I hope this is insightful!
Veronica
Student Ambassador