So I’ve just come back to my family home after my year abroad, planned to stay here a couple weeks before the next year starts for uni. It’s just my mum living here, and it turns out she’s been taking energy conservation to the absolute extreme to save money. For context, she’s 65 and from an ex-soviet country so she’s always been a bit loopy, owns her house & paid off mortgage thanks to her ex husband (no relation of mine), lives off 8 grand a year working part time, no car, only financial responsibly is gas/electric/water bills and food. I'm 22 years old living off student finance.
She sits in complete darkness (turning on the light is banned), showers once a week, doesn’t use any electrical appliances so spends all day doing crosswords, fridge is unplugged, only eats raw food to avoid using the cooker, doesn’t flush the toilet, the list goes on. Coming home to this was just an absolutely pitiful sight, but 2 days in I realised I would be forced to participate. I have to get into a physical altercation any time I try to do something normal like turn on the light, take a shower, flush the toilet, anything that will make the bills go up.
I really don’t know what to do. It goes without saying, but having your own mother shoving and punching you every time you shower, having to sit in complete darkness, eating unrefrigerated food, it takes a toll on your mental health. I booked the train tickets to my uni acom before I knew about any of this, and there’s still another 2 weeks left until then. I also just feel very sorry for her. I don’t know how much money she’s saving by doing this, but it can’t be worth it.
Does anyone have any advice for me?