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scared my mistakes as a teenager will catch up to me in the future

when i was a teenager i had no respect for myself and i was constantly craving attention, i was in a bad place for a really long time and used to seek solace in boys, i slept around a lot which im not proud of but i’m terrified because in the past i’ve sent so many nudes to people that i know and some to strangers some with my face in them.. i know i shouldn’t have done it but now i’m so scared it will ruin my future, i’m very talented at what i do and wouldn’t want stupid mistakes to hinder my opportunities in the future.. i’d mostly put it behind me as i’m now 22 but i’m living with this never ending feeling of impending doom that one day my family will disown me and everyone will know about my past❤️*🩹

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Original post by frontal-piggy
when i was a teenager i had no respect for myself and i was constantly craving attention, i was in a bad place for a really long time and used to seek solace in boys, i slept around a lot which im not proud of but i’m terrified because in the past i’ve sent so many nudes to people that i know and some to strangers some with my face in them.. i know i shouldn’t have done it but now i’m so scared it will ruin my future, i’m very talented at what i do and wouldn’t want stupid mistakes to hinder my opportunities in the future.. i’d mostly put it behind me as i’m now 22 but i’m living with this never ending feeling of impending doom that one day my family will disown me and everyone will know about my past❤️*🩹
I am the exact same, although I am still that teenager today. It was bad last year it was all the time, but recently I’ve just realised I just need too ******* get on with it. You honestly do not have to worry, everyone makes mistakes in there lives and it’s not like your the only person to have done this before. Now for the worrying about the face thing, yes that was abit stupid😂, however I really don’t think anyone cares enough to bait you out after all these years, and if they do they really have nothing going for them. You’re worried about your family finding out and things, however because it’s so far on the past they’d honestly probably just laugh about it and tell you how stupid you are. Your loved by your family and friends, do not let some mistake years ago hinder your ability to move forward.

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Well I have a very similar things to you and I am also very very scared and the anxiety keep pushing me off the cliff where it gets to a point that I don’t even know what is my worth of being exist in this world. I just hope that the law reinforcements won’t find out what I did other wise I might be in trouble and my parents will be very mad at me. I felt very stupid about the mistake I’ve done and I won’t do it ever again. People in the internet with the same kind of problems as me had been told to let go and not to worried since this is our life lesson. But I don’t really think it’s working when it gets to the point when I’m so scared that i kept thinking about one day there will be police knocking at my door. I just want to live a simple live and avoid many mistakes as possible why is it so hard and am I a very bad person! I need help !😭😭😭
Original post by Henderson5264
Well I have a very similar things to you and I am also very very scared and the anxiety keep pushing me off the cliff where it gets to a point that I don’t even know what is my worth of being exist in this world. I just hope that the law reinforcements won’t find out what I did other wise I might be in trouble and my parents will be very mad at me. I felt very stupid about the mistake I’ve done and I won’t do it ever again. People in the internet with the same kind of problems as me had been told to let go and not to worried since this is our life lesson. But I don’t really think it’s working when it gets to the point when I’m so scared that i kept thinking about one day there will be police knocking at my door. I just want to live a simple live and avoid many mistakes as possible why is it so hard and am I a very bad person! I need help !😭😭😭

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Reply 4

Original post by frontal-piggy
when i was a teenager i had no respect for myself and i was constantly craving attention, i was in a bad place for a really long time and used to seek solace in boys, i slept around a lot which im not proud of but i’m terrified because in the past i’ve sent so many nudes to people that i know and some to strangers some with my face in them.. i know i shouldn’t have done it but now i’m so scared it will ruin my future, i’m very talented at what i do and wouldn’t want stupid mistakes to hinder my opportunities in the future.. i’d mostly put it behind me as i’m now 22 but i’m living with this never ending feeling of impending doom that one day my family will disown me and everyone will know about my past❤️*🩹


hey i can relate to this just happened recently. met someone on a dating app and he offered money in exchange for nudes. i was desperate and agreed. i sent nude videos with my face. he exchanges with d*** pics as well. after that he told me he was gonna pay and then suddenly im blocked. i got so scared. but i was able to delete it from both sides after him blocking me but i have no assurance that he wasn’t saving it during. right now im so anxious about my videos showing up :frown:( i can’t sleep nor eat properly. how are you now? do you have any advice?

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