I also want to pitch in with how strong you all are, despite not knowing or believing it.
It's one thing to have an irrational set of thoughts and habits; it's totally another to be AWARE of those thoughts and habits and follow them anyway. Like the old saying goes, "who is the more foolish; the fool, or the smart man who follows him?" - the former might do stupid things, but is oblivious to his actions. But the latter is fully aware but continues to follow along anyway. Who is the more irrational? The more troubled?
I trigger myself into a fit of panic with my obsession over numbers. Despite the numbers equalling that of irrationality even now, I checked back on my on old posts to see how often I'd posted my height, weight and dimensions in accurate numbers. It as shocking how frequently I'd done so. But in turn, I took into account that I've gained about 5lb since the beginning of recovery (maybe 3 months ago) and the fact that number was lower than today's number, I started freaking out again.
Then I looked at the person I was before the ED began. Not since high school have I been overweight; but for many years I was so carefree. So frivolous. "I fancy a pasty." I ate a pasty. "Let's go for an Indian". We went out for an Indian meal. So completely free. And it never hurt me - I was happy, enjoyed life completely and utterly without a second thought for how food - the life fuel that keeps our bodies working - would cause me any detrimental effects. Truth is, food does NOT have detrimental effects. It's the oil that keeps our engines running.
In some ways I was the former man, that "fool" - but without the element of foolishness. Only today, with a clouded mind, with an ED, do I regard that kind of behaviour as foolish, or oblivious, or close-minded, when in reality, the me from those days - he was the NORMAL man.
We all have to realise that the previous us - the ones before the EDs - those were not the foolish, oblivious ones at all. But now, under the spell of the ED, we are the "fool who follows". The ones that know what we're doing but do it anyway; a puppet that actually has the CHOICE to defy his puppet master, but doesn't.
And in this respect, my ED is both the most powerless and powerful thing in the world.