Hi, basically I've felt awful for months; I've not had more than about 3 hours sleep since October, I'm constantly stressed and there are frequent (2 or 3 a week) days where I feel genuinely unable to do anything as I feel so down.
I've missed a lot of lectures due to having bad days - which is terrible as I feel awful about myself already then missing lectures just adds to my self-loathing. I've always had issues with comfort eating, but it's been so much worse recently - on a 'bad day' I can easily eat around 4000 calories, and my total lack of willpower just makes me feel even worse about myself.
[aware I sound like a moaning prick, but don't really know how else to put it]
I've also had issues with alcohol throughout the length of time I've been drinking (started regularly when I was 13, 19 now) - had my stomach pumped twice. I love being drunk, and the sense of escape and I know that sounds awful but it makes so much sense to me. I'd say I drink 6 days a week on average, and drink 'heavily' (leaving me with no recollection) 2-3 times a week.
There's some other stuff as well, which I won't get into.
Basically, right at the end of the last term I went to see my tutor to talk about this, and the possibility of suspending studies and restarting 2nd year in september 2013. She said she was fine with it and that I should see a doctor.
I haven't seen a doctor, purely due to time constraints (I work 30 hours a week while at uni, and around 60 hours during holidays as I get minimum maintenance loan and no parental support), and I've deliberately avoided the word 'depression' during this post as I've got no diagnosis.
I really worry about if I were to suspend, as I feel now as though a break from uni is what I need - what if it just makes me sink further in?
I think my parents would be really angry, they already stopped giving me support when I told them I was gay, I'm worried they'll stop even talking to me if I suspend myself.
Next year on my course is supposed to be a year abroad, so if I were to suspend I'd have to start back with none of my friends, which I think could be problematic, as I'm really bad with new people. I've managed to build up a good network of friends, but I'm not sure I could do it again.
Basically, I want any advice anyone has, I saw another thread that mostly dealt with the effects of leaving uni and going back with parents - that isn't an option for me and I want to know if anyone's suspended and remained at the university town.
Sorry for the long read
tl;dr I'm considering suspending studies for mental health reasons, and would like any advice/stories anyone may have