How far do you agree with beauty in a woman is a prerequisite?

No it is not. You have no idea what you're talking about, and at this point you are not believable at all.
You insist that you are ugly, but at the same time claim to know what it is like to be beautiful and all that it entails.
You do not submit a photo, I would imagine from fear that someone would actually tell you how to improve your appearance.
Your arguments are inconsistent and reeks of someone in denial. I don't know why you constantly start threads when you are unwilling to accept any opinion which differs from your own.
With these personality traits, I am not surprised you are single and will remain so. With an attitude shift, you could at the very least score a guy at your own level of attractiveness. But I suppose for some, complete self-pity is the preferable lifestyle.

Yeah, it's so easy being me. Don't you realise that men judge women on looks? It's called living in the real world.

I don't want any of this crap like "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (total nonsense) and "there are other qualities to consider, not just beauty" (YEAH right).

Men, just give me your honest opinions when you see women. How far do you judge them on looks? Why do you hate ugly woman such as myself?

How far do you base a woman's worth on her looks?

I want honest answers.

Look, no one is going to know you've posted in this thread. Just let out what you really think. I don't want to be lied to anymore.

I'm not actually insecure. If (and they have) a guy told me that I was ugly, I'd laugh it off or make a joke about it. I wouldn't go and cry about it (not in front of them, and even if I would - it depends on who was saying it). I'm not insecure. I know I'm ugly. So I'm secure with myself in the knowledge that I'm so ugly.

???

Abraham Maslow describes an insecure person as a person who "perceives the world as a threatening jungle and most human beings as dangerous and selfish; feels rejected and isolated person, anxious and hostile; is generally pessimistic and unhappy; shows signs of tension and conflict, tends to turn inward; is troubled by guilt-feelings, has one on another disturbance of self-esteem; tends to be neurotic; and is generally selfish and egocentric." (Maslow, 1942, pp 35).

Apart from show-casing your totally magnificent copy/paste capability you've accomplished nothing in your post.

Do you care to elaborate?

What on earth is there to elaborate?

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Apart from show-casing your totally magnificent copy/paste capability you've accomplished nothing in your post.

Do you care to elaborate?

The point that he's trying to make in regards to the person he quoted, assuming he has a point of course.

Abraham Maslow describes an insecure person as a person who "perceives the world as a threatening jungle and most human beings as dangerous and selfish; feels rejected and isolated person, anxious and hostile; is generally pessimistic and unhappy; shows signs of tension and conflict, tends to turn inward; is troubled by guilt-feelings, has one on another disturbance of self-esteem; tends to be neurotic; and is generally selfish and egocentric." (Maslow, 1942, pp 35).

I'm with you ISA.
If a girl is not at least moderately pretty, she may as well not exist. Simple fact, because no boy would ever look at her and therefore her existence is worthless.

Wait, what?! since when was your existence worthless just because boys don't look at you?!

That is some messed up thinking =/

If that is truly what you think you need to sort your life out.

Appeal to authority.

I could do the same thing: Machiavelli mentioned that most of the qualities you have listed are just part of human nature.

Machiavelli would be wrong because as somebody secure in myself I do not feel the world is threatening, most humans are dangerous, feel rejected or isolated, pessimistic or unhappy, and I try not to consider myself selfish or egocentric (though I'm aware that's not for me to decide).

Wait, what?! since when was your existence worthless just because boys don't look at you?!

That is some messed up thinking =/

If that is truly what you think you need to sort your life out.

Because if a boy doesn't look at you, you'll never get a boyfriend, you'll be a virgin forever, you'll never reproduce, you'll be lonely and bitter and jealous for your whole life.
That to me is a pretty worthless existence.

Yet I would disagree with Maslow because most human beings are naturally dangerous and selfish - it is in their self-interest for them to do so. Most human beings are pessimistic/unhappy - everyone has some sort of "issues" with them as true happiness is an ideal. It doesn't exist. Even if I were beautiful, I know for a fact I still wouldn't be completely happy. I would be happy yes, but not to the extent where I feel that I have reached the epitome of human happiness (which only exists as a concept).

Everyone shows signs of tension and conflict in some way or another, and yes at times we do turn inward have guilt-feelings about ourselves and about other people. This has nothing to do with how secure you are as a person, but is in fact an accurate perception of society around us.