I don't really know why nowadays it's looked down on so much, being a stay at home mum.. often people who have full-time jobs are just paying nannies and nursery nurses to look after their children during the day, which I'm not faulting them for, I'm just saying looking after children is a full-time job so why applaud the nursery nurses yet not the mums?
Also, lots of couples who work full-time have cleaners, so that minimises their household chores..
I think it's really sad how nowadays stay at home mums are really looked down upon by lots of people, my mum became one when I was born, but for all the years leading up to that she'd worked full-time (she had me late in life) - and then a few years back she started getting work again, this time self-employed, so I don't think just because someone's a stay at home mum means that they're discredited as an individual, I think it gives them more credit - if they can afford to do it ofc.
I appreciate it's just not financially possible for lots of people, but if it is, why is it any less of a responsibility, job and privilege than any other job? I'm really grateful that my mum was always around growing up.
I feel like girls nowadays are being pulled in a thousand directions, career, mum, cleaner, cook, entertainer, feminist, girly-girl.. but does being all of that at the same time make someone happy? I'd rather be good at one thing than so-so with ten things. I'm not saying I want to be a stay at home mum for the record, I don't really know who I want to be right now, but I'm defending it as a life choice just as much as any other.