My a level exams are on-going, and because of depression and so many other reasons, I didnt start revising until a month before... I felt as if I had been revising for the past 5 months, but in actual reality, I didn;t do much. The realisation hit me so hard and I had constant panic attacks for a week, which made it hard to revise. But thankfully, I have an unconditional offer from a uni so I'm going there, but even so, I want to do my best on these exams.
I feel like a failure. I used to be so smart. Went to grammar school etc, but since gcse's my life has just been going downhill. I'm self aware- i know what im doing isnt good (ie not doing anything), but i can;t stop myself. Worst thing is I have so much pressure from other relatives since im known as the 'smart one' , and if I dont do well, my parents will be looked down upon. and from my dad as well, since I've only told my mum recently about my struggles. Outwardly she says its fine, but i know inside its hurting her- to see her kid, that used to be so smart and do well, become dumb and apathetic. and it kills me.
My parents have always been so proud of me since I studied well, and now I failed them. It's not like I do any extra curricular activities in which they can be proud of me for. My parents always told me I'd regret that, but I didnt realise it would hit me this early in life. But i dont feel upset for myself- I feel upset for my parents. They dont show their sadness, but I can feel it and it hurts me so so much but something in me isnt allowing me to change. When other parents are telling my parents about all that their kids have done, my parents are quiet because I dont do anything and it kills me everytime.
I love my parents so so much, and my biggest fear is losing them before I've done anything to make them proud of me. or before any major milestones in life, like graduating from uni. They're quite old as well, and have a number of health issues. And especially because I'll be moving away for uni, I'm so scared that something may happen and I wont be there.
And then there;s the issue with my sibling. I have the absolute worse relationship w my sibling, and its because of me. Im SELF AWARE- I KNOW ITS MY FAULT but i cant stop shouting at them and telling them to get out my room.
i'm such a failure.