Match.com: Riddled with bots/over-moderated?

Invitation to chat declined despite mutual likes and relatively innocuous messaging. Is AI being used for nefarious purposes? I Shouldn't be doing as badly as I am on there.

match.com is indeed riddled with bots. I was encouraged to pay by a fake profile of a cute Italian widower. The average user is such a loser that you would not wish to join for their sake. I saw a documentary about this (not about match.com), whereby the staff make up fake profiles using attractive pictures and backstory (they even used an old pic of actress Michelle Pfeiffer) . Once you have paid, the attractive fake messages you three times, then drop you. When I tried to leave, you can only imagine how many likes I had from attractive widowers with masters degrees. One of them was definitely a fake, as the same photo appeared twice under a different user name, in a different London location. When I tackled one of them on this, all he wanted to know was why I wanted to leave Match.com. His profile was then hurriedly deleted. They also have scammers, and trolls, from whom I got awful abuse. The two people I did meet had misleading profile pictures (ie from years ago) and they seemed to resent me for actually having a personality.

When I tried to complain, a bot answered that I hadn't tried hard enough on my dates, and I need to improve my appearance/technique. Obviously it is all my fault, even though the guys I spoke to lied repeatedly to me.

It all ended when my son said "Who's going to reject you today, Mum?" At that point, enough was enough. And I am a person who had 368 views per week, so I am not exactly ugly, and I am intelligent, too. They are making money from your vulnerability, and your belief that there is someone out there for everyone. Well, there certainly isn't on match.com.

Get rid of them.

This year things have really changed a lot. I think they are starting to incorporate social crediting in to dating platforms, I think this is what is happening in China now. Ultimately the CIA, Silicon Valley shape the society they want with these platforms. What they don't want is different groups of people coming together and upsetting the status quo. They want racial interbreeding in the west, but at the same time to isolate and polarise the different social/racial groups. That is how they have configured their algorithms IMO.

Invitation to chat declined despite mutual likes and relatively innocuous messaging. Is AI being used for nefarious purposes? I Shouldn't be doing as badly as I am on there.