... well, that’s some pathos if I have seen any
Your mind seems to be embellishing on some details like ‘cannot achieve my dreams in life’, and in my experience I have found people like that to become detached from their relationships and then wonder why- only to draw up the conclusion that they all hate me. This is not a warning but rather a twisted form of a threat and it is up to you to harness that negative energy into effective motivation. Other than that, I think straight up telling you what to do will be more detrimental than beneficial.
- Ineffable