I know I'm posting a lot in this thread.. But I really need advice on what is the Christian thing to do in this situation. So my grandma was a catholic, quite religious. She was really close with me and my mum we did everything as a three together. She got diagnosed with terminal cancer and had a long arduous death in which we visited her and cared for her at every opportunity we could, twice a day. When she died, my granddad basically saw it as a get out clause, he gave everything of hers away, packed up shop an left to a new place whilst renting the house. Before my grandma died e was horrible to her, he worked full time leaving her alone despite him supposed to have retired. He sold a business and had 5 pensions, set for life. He refused to take her anywhere or go on holiday. Made her life hell. Now she's gone, he's going on holidays left right and centre galacabting everywhere. Worst thing is, is that he's started seeing someone else already. He doesn't care that we are all still grieving heavily and hurt everyday and night. I will never forget what the priest said to me in Ireland, that she will always be with me, guiding me . It hurts so much that he's got no heart and has moved on. My family in Ireland have told him he's not welcome there anymore, my auntie has too, but my mum is too soft and won't tell him and so he still comes over everyday talking about himself nonstop to my dad. It's stressing my dad out, his epilepsy is worse because of it, and my mum has just found a lump in her breast and is stressed over that. Do I tell him to basically stay away and that we don't need any stress? Or do I let this carry on...