I'm 16, he's 36.. AMA!

OP is mature for her age guys FFS.

Tbh he is basically a paedophile. To him, there is probably no difference between a 13 year old and a 16 year old. That is pretty sick.

I recall people telling me I was mature for my age too. Isn't this just a special way of trying to make people act mature using labelling theory?
It's similar to the poor kid at school that got bullied all of the time and called a gay and puff. Eventually, because he gets called it so much, he starts to believe it, acts that way and eventually becomes.

Same with calling the scouse kid a car thief. Call him it enough times and thsts what he becomes.

I don't care what anyone says, no one is mature at 16. My sister left school with 14 a* - b 16 years ago. People thought she was mature until she went and set herself on fire whilst excessively drunk at a BBQ by pouring petrol on the BBQ. Dead mature that even though she was told by everyone the same.

I dunno mate, any time a 16 year old girl says she is mature for her age my overriding instinct is to believe her.

Even her therapist and policeman friends say she's mature. The only adult who doesn't think this relationship is a good idea is her mum who probably just DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HER.

Will be more than happy to post some background info on us both too - how we met, etc.

Seriously though, ask me anything(:

Three years? Or are you saying he can't work out the difference because it's been that long since he did maths?

Will be more than happy to post some background info on us both too - how we met, etc.

Seriously though, ask me anything(:

Do you not question why he, as a 36 year old, is comfortable being with a 16 year old rather than someone with his level of maturity / life experience

You have to help me out a little here. I don't do sarcasm very well. Is that what it is? :-/ do 16 year olds tend to have friends that are police officers? They join at 18 and 1/2 , train at hendon for a number of months and then return to take up post which, in my conservative estimate, would make them 19 plus minimum!! When I was 16 I didn't know many people that were that age. I think a lot of what has been said here has been put in order to self justify an action. Im not calling the girl a liar, but when we want something so badly, the mind will believe what it wants in order to justify to yourself that what you are doing is right.

In addition, mums are right 99% of the time. Even at 29 I still clarify things with my mum before any other person if I think something is a miss. Mums do tend to have that inner wisdom like Yoda. ----- even though that sounds soft as...... It's fact!

This is SO SO wrong. I really hope it's a troll thread.

He's being sarcastic m8 XD

If it is I will be pissed. Ive put a lot of concious thought into reply in this thread. It wouldn't be fake would it? You wouldn't advertise the fact you are with an older man and create such an elaborate back story to wind people up would they?

I'm 18 and my ex was 24. I broke up with him because of his immaturity. So yeah it is possible to be incredibly mature when you're 18.



Haha I'd like to know as well.

I'm not trying to take shots personally, but just because he was immature doesn't mean you're "incredibly mature", for all we know you're also immature but just to a lesser degree

My point wasn't that 18 year olds can't be immature, but that just because you turn legal or whatever at midnight (we all know the shenanigans we get up to once we hit it) doesn't necessarily mean we suddenly take that mental step to maturity